just friends?

You can't be friends with someone of the opposite sex. I have been over this a billion times. Doesn't work. I want to make happy time in the friendzone. Same thing happens with every dude on earth. Fscks up friendship.
 
What about getting a cool female friend? That way you could also experience the new surroundings, eat at new cafe's explore each others bodies, get to know the place and have someone to chat to... That way, your SO won't be jealous.
 
The_Mowgs said:
What about getting a cool female friend? That way you could also experience the new surroundings, eat at new cafe's explore each others bodies, get to know the place and have someone to chat to... That way, your SO won't be jealous.
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interesting. he might get there very quick if you tell him about that situation.:whistle:
 
The_Mowgs said:
What about getting a cool female friend? That way you could also experience the new surroundings, eat at new cafe's explore each others bodies, get to know the place and have someone to chat to... That way, your SO won't be jealous.
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A: A new female friend would be winner, but girls are weird :/ I went for drinks with a girl I met at this expats club and I was so nervous. It was like I was on a first date :( Plus, I dont think we hit it off so much. It just all feels so forced coz you KNOW the intention is there of making a new friend. It's like going into a store and trying on a pair of shoes to see if they fit. Except its a person. Which means if they pinch (the shoes...although it would be just as weird if I was referring to the person) there's all sorts of ... like ... human stuff involved.

B: I had to read that post twice before I picked up on the body parts exploration stuff dot dot dot.
 
mooks said:
A: A new female friend would be winner, but girls are weird :/ I went for drinks with a girl I met at this expats club and I was so nervous. It was like I was on a first date :( Plus, I dont think we hit it off so much. It just all feels so forced coz you KNOW the intention is there of making a new friend. It's like going into a store and trying on a pair of shoes to see if they fit. Except its a person. Which means if they pinch (the shoes...although it would be just as weird if I was referring to the person) there's all sorts of ... like ... human stuff involved.

B: I had to read that post twice before I picked up on the body parts exploration stuff dot dot dot.
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Wait, your a girl? This changes everything, if you were a guy wanting to make a new friend of the opposite sex it would be a bad idea but your a girl wanting to be "just friends" with a guy? That's like 10 times more terrible! Are you attractive? Because if your attractive, then there is a very VERY good chance that your new "buddy" wants to bang you. I'm a guy and I prefer having guy friends, we understand each other and we can relate regarding how ridiculous women can be, how hot some women are and general guy stuff. I only actively pursue a relationship with another female if I want to B to the ang her, or if it's a work situation where being friends will be easier and more enjoyable than not but that's a closed environment.

Even if your intentions are pure, the chances of someone getting the wrong idea would most likely come from the guy anyway.

From what I've read here, you've been very honest and I'm sure you really aren't out to get into bed with another guy but the fact that your the girl in the scenario just changes everything. It wont end well, if he makes moves on you your going to have to break your friendship anyway.
 
Cloudster said:
Wait, your a girl? This changes everything, if you were a guy wanting to make a new friend of the opposite sex it would be a bad idea but your a girl wanting to be "just friends" with a guy? That's like 10 times more terrible! Are you attractive? Because if your attractive, then there is a very VERY good chance that your new "buddy" wants to bang you. I'm a guy and I prefer having guy friends, we understand each other and we can relate regarding how ridiculous women can be, how hot some women are and general guy stuff. I only actively pursue a relationship with another female if I want to B to the ang her, or if it's a work situation where being friends will be easier and more enjoyable than not but that's a closed environment.

Even if your intentions are pure, the chances of someone getting the wrong idea would most likely come from the guy anyway.

From what I've read here, you've been very honest and I'm sure you really aren't out to get into bed with another guy but the fact that your the girl in the scenario just changes everything. It wont end well, if he makes moves on you your going to have to break your friendship anyway.
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YOU'RE :cry:
 
ponder said:
When in doubt fsck it :D
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Best advice so far.
Second best is a cool girlfriend. (I had a bi girlfriend and found her very hot)

If you love your boyfriend that's fine but love and sex are different things and you have (or should have) needs that cannot be met without help.

Find a friend with benefits and what your bf does not know about will not hurt him.

BTW. Where are you?
In the Middle East a female needs to exercise extreme care!
 
out of another girl's perspective - in my whole life I have only had one or two girlfriends. i don't have the same interests as most girls so I just don't blend well as 'one of the girls'. I have a lot of really good guy friends, and although not all of them just wants to be friends, there really are good guys out there that isn't out looking for a fsck. i think you're boyfriend has reason to be jealous, but if you trust yourself not to do anything, he should trust you too. my boyfriend still doesn't like that I have guy friends, but its just something he'll have to live with.
 
Roxi_B4b3 said:
out of another girl's perspective - in my whole life I have only had one or two girlfriends. i don't have the same interests as most girls so I just don't blend well as 'one of the girls'. I have a lot of really good guy friends, and although not all of them just wants to be friends, there really are good guys out there that isn't out looking for a fsck. i think you're boyfriend has reason to be jealous, but if you trust yourself not to do anything, he should trust you too. my boyfriend still doesn't like that I have guy friends, but its just something he'll have to live with.
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ja your boyfriend is clever. he doesnt want to jeopardize his nookie supply...:whistle: but deep down he hates it..the nookie makes it bearable..
 
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