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I'm going through something now that makes me so angry I could actually become physical. I'm at a stage where I don't see the point in going home after work because I don't think I could look the person there in the eye.

I'd love to give out all the gory details and get this off my chest but I can't, simply because that isn't who I am and I'd rather suffer through this myself than cause a moments discomfort to the other person.

What I want to do though is to stand in front of the other person and scream in their face, simply asking what more they want, cause I don't have anything left to give. My relationship with my family is in tatters, we don't have anyone left who we can refer to as friends and I'm in the worst financial position I have been in in my life.

Why do I share this now? Because its V-Day and person is angry at me for being right. Yes, person called me and started a fight because I did what I was asked to do and did it correctly...
 
such is life buddy

if that person is the cause for losing most of your stuff then why are you with that person

walk away tomorrow and live a happy life
 
Ambush said:
I'm going through something now that makes me so angry I could actually become physical. I'm at a stage where I don't see the point in going home after work because I don't think I could look the person there in the eye.

I'd love to give out all the gory details and get this off my chest but I can't, simply because that isn't who I am and I'd rather suffer through this myself than cause a moments discomfort to the other person.

What I want to do though is to stand in front of the other person and scream in their face, simply asking what more they want, cause I don't have anything left to give. My relationship with my family is in tatters, we don't have anyone left who we can refer to as friends and I'm in the worst financial position I have been in in my life.

Why do I share this now? Because its V-Day and person is angry at me for being right. Yes, person called me and started a fight because I did what I was asked to do and did it correctly...
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Hmmm

dont worry , everything will be okay. Pray Pray. GOD is there for you.
 
I'm sincerely sorry that you are going through such a tough time.
 
I agree with sam in this 1 - If you you don't move forward with someone - leave them behind
 
samr1wp said:
such is life buddy

if that person is the cause for losing most of your stuff then why are you with that person

walk away tomorrow and live a happy life
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You can be pretty amazing sometimes :cool:

@OP. When someone makes you give up your family... think long and hard.
 
Ambush said:
I'm going through something now that makes me so angry I could actually become physical. I'm at a stage where I don't see the point in going home after work because I don't think I could look the person there in the eye.

I'd love to give out all the gory details and get this off my chest but I can't, simply because that isn't who I am and I'd rather suffer through this myself than cause a moments discomfort to the other person.

What I want to do though is to stand in front of the other person and scream in their face, simply asking what more they want, cause I don't have anything left to give. My relationship with my family is in tatters, we don't have anyone left who we can refer to as friends and I'm in the worst financial position I have been in in my life.

Why do I share this now? Because its V-Day and person is angry at me for being right. Yes, person called me and started a fight because I did what I was asked to do and did it correctly...
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I want the gory details - come on, get it off your chest!
 
Ambush said:
I'm going through something now that makes me so angry I could actually become physical. I'm at a stage where I don't see the point in going home after work because I don't think I could look the person there in the eye.

I'd love to give out all the gory details and get this off my chest but I can't, simply because that isn't who I am and I'd rather suffer through this myself than cause a moments discomfort to the other person.

What I want to do though is to stand in front of the other person and scream in their face, simply asking what more they want, cause I don't have anything left to give. My relationship with my family is in tatters, we don't have anyone left who we can refer to as friends and I'm in the worst financial position I have been in in my life.

Why do I share this now? Because its V-Day and person is angry at me for being right. Yes, person called me and started a fight because I did what I was asked to do and did it correctly...
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Good luck and keep your chin up, there is alway's a rainbow after the storm :)
 
I think the issue here is you're one of those "I'll just bottle it up and take it as much as possible" type people.

I hate those type of people. You only find out something is wrong AFTER they decided they're "done" with you.

It's also a classic "Let's dump all family and friends because I'm going out with xyz" syndrome. Do everything for everyone else except look after yourself.
 
Ambush said:
I'm going through something now that makes me so angry I could actually become physical. I'm at a stage where I don't see the point in going home after work because I don't think I could look the person there in the eye.

I'd love to give out all the gory details and get this off my chest but I can't, simply because that isn't who I am and I'd rather suffer through this myself than cause a moments discomfort to the other person.

What I want to do though is to stand in front of the other person and scream in their face, simply asking what more they want, cause I don't have anything left to give. My relationship with my family is in tatters, we don't have anyone left who we can refer to as friends and I'm in the worst financial position I have been in in my life.

Why do I share this now? Because its V-Day and person is angry at me for being right. Yes, person called me and started a fight because I did what I was asked to do and did it correctly...
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The big thing is to ask if it's worth being miserable and IN A RELATIONSHIP, or being happy and SINGLE.

Family is pretty amazing - no matter what, I'm sure they still love you.
Humility and apologies - start repairing the damage.
 
Ah yes, know this feeling I do. Is person always this way or are there days that are good in between?
 
samr1wp said:
such is life buddy

if that person is the cause for losing most of your stuff then why are you with that person

walk away tomorrow and live a happy life
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Easier said than done, alerady 15 years down the line and 2 little ones to think of.

AcidRaZor said:
I think the issue here is you're one of those "I'll just bottle it up and take it as much as possible" type people.

I hate those type of people. You only find out something is wrong AFTER they decided they're "done" with you.

It's also a classic "Let's dump all family and friends because I'm going out with xyz" syndrome. Do everything for everyone else except look after yourself.
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Spot on. I am like this, I know I shouldn't be and I've been working on it. I've gone out on a limb now repeatedly to state my case and try and fix things. The response I get is the same every time: They have changed and I need to accept that, I don't need to like the new person but that is who they are.

warchylde said:
Ah yes, know this feeling I do. Is person always this way or are there days that are good in between?
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There are good days in between, they are just growing further and further apart though.
 
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