Lady in the office

rubytox

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Shag her. If the sex is great shag her a few times more.

In a few months come back and create the "I screwed around and furked my marriage up" thread.

Alternatively in a few months come back and create the "I am now married to the lady in the office" thread.

Life is full of endless possibilities. Any choice you make today determines future outcomes. Positive or negative is not known till you just about take your last breath.

The basis of such a relationship will be deceit and the cornerstones miss-trust. No trust = problem.
 

senyetse

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How much does your marriage mean to you, and are you happy with your wife?
 

Good.Fellow

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Wow, hectic responses.

She just likes me. I would never escalate it, ever.

I catch her looking at me often, that's all. It just feels good.
 

ShaunSA

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The basis of such a relationship will be deceit and the cornerstones miss-trust. No trust = problem.

Just about all relationships have deceit as their basis :D

In any event I was merely highlighting that every action that we take has a myriad of possible outcomes. Positive and negative.
 

azbob

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Wow, hectic responses.

She just likes me. I would never escalate it, ever.

I catch her looking at me often, that's all.

That's all? And you think she likes you? People don't necessarily look at things because they're good...
 

OMB

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so the OP is actually asking a bunch of total strangers whether he should cheat on his wife or not?

I mean seriously :wtf:
 

Good.Fellow

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so the OP is actually asking a bunch of total strangers whether he should cheat on his wife or not?

I mean seriously :wtf:

I'm not going to cheat, I'm just asking advice from strangers. Who would you recommend i get advice from? My sisters or mom?
 

Maverick Jester

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Wow, hectic responses.

She just likes me. I would never escalate it, ever.

I catch her looking at me often, that's all. It just feels good.

Why do you assume this though? Again, I have to question your intentions with your female colleagues. You seem to read into situations in a very subversive manner, especially for a happily married man...
 

rubytox

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There's nothing wrong with window shopping but go eat at home.

A beautiful, well-groomed lady is a feast for the eye.
 

Good.Fellow

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Why do you assume this though? Again, I have to question your intentions with your female colleagues. You seem to read into situations in a very subversive manner, especially for a happily married man...

I don't read into situations at all. If you read the first post, I'm just asking advice, you're all assuming its about naughty things. Shows were your mind is. :erm:
 

OMB

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I'm not going to cheat, I'm just asking advice from strangers. Who would you recommend i get advice from? My sisters or mom?

well maybe you should be a bit more specific in your post, because that's how it reads to me

and looking for advice from a bunch of total strangers on the internet isn't exactly the most effective way of doing life
 

OMB

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I don't read into situations at all. If you read the first post, I'm just asking advice, you're all assuming its about naughty things. Shows were your mind is. :erm:

your post leads itself to assumption, what advice specifically are you looking for?
 

AlphaBravo

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Go have a FAP before wanting to do her, if you still feel like it then, well...
 
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