Lady in the office

visrot

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You're not just enjoying the good feeling boet, you're asking for ideas 'cause that snake in your pants woke up and it's oozing infidelity juice.

Tell you what guy, if you really want a piss load of problems go for it. Otherwise don't start something for which you don't have the dick to finish. While you think about it, see if you can recall your wedding vows Good_fellow. Good_fellow? :rolleyes:
 

Maverick Jester

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I don't read into situations at all. If you read the first post, I'm just asking advice, you're all assuming its about naughty things. Shows were your mind is. :erm:

What sort of advice? Your posts lead to assumptions being formed, you can't blame us for that... You are reading into things. Her appearing to "constantly look at you" does not automatically mean that she likes you. Really now, you would only see this if you were looking for it...

There is a nice lady in the office where I work and I think she likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?

Read that, and identify how this statement can be taken in any sort of context other than some sort of ulterior agenda on your part?

But you want some advice, here you go: stay away from the women in your office.
 

Compton_effect

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Troll, Troll in the basement!

But seriously - I once almost had an affair with a woman in my office.
She was unhappy in her marraige, I was going through a bad stage, we shared war stories with each other.
We were working together quite closely and spent a lot of time in a office behind closed doors...
It got really intense. Luckily we both decided to call a halt before it too physical.

I went on to other projects, sommer moved to another building. Sorted my stuff out.

6 months later her husband found out she was now having affair with her new boss and told everyone - the md, the shareholders (5 big SA companies), her parents, everyone. The boss resigned, moved to Cape Town (Allways Cape Town?).
They started counceling. Then she found out she's 8 weeks pregnant...
Divorce, etc. It got really ugly.

So not worth it. Trust me.
 

adam1234

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honstly, if you want to cheat on your wife then do it with a single lady!! dont go breaking up other relationships(whether she likes you or not)
 

Wag

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There is a nice lady in the office where I work and I think she likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?

If she is a looker then you must go for it.

Always remember these two rules

1 Never, ever fall in love.
2 Never talk about it, to NOBODY or you going to get burned.

If your wife or her husband doesn't know then no harm done.
 

Bar0n

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If she is a looker then you must go for it.

Always remember these two rules

1 Never, ever fall in love.
2 Never talk about it, to NOBODY or you going to get burned.

If your wife or her husband doesn't know then no harm done.

<sarcasm>
Textbook example of a healthy relationship.
</sarcasm>
 

senyetse

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If she is a looker then you must go for it.

Always remember these two rules

1 Never, ever fall in love.
2 Never talk about it, to NOBODY or you going to get burned.

If your wife or her husband doesn't know then no harm done.


That just makes you a dishonest cheater. Do you have no honour? :wtf:
And you will get caught out eventually.
 

F1 Fan

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OP, if you have no intentions to take it further, you don't need advice on anything. Faithful to your marriage? So who cares about who likes you?
 

Compton_effect

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Let me guess.
A threesome is also not cheating.
:erm:

If she is a looker then you must go for it.

Always remember these two rules

1 Never, ever fall in love.
2 Never talk about it, to NOBODY or you going to get burned.

If your wife or her husband doesn't know then no harm done.
 

RazedInBlack

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Man! You want to tap that ass, else you wouldn't be asking our opnions.

If you were mature and stable enough in your marriage you would not even have given it a second thought. Your wife obviously doesn't do it for you.
 

Alton Turner Blackwood

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Man! You want to tap that ass, else you wouldn't be asking our opnions.

If you were mature and stable enough in your marriage you would not even have given it a second thought. Your wife obviously doesn't do it for you.
^5!!! I'm with RIB on this one, tap that schit yo!
 

RazedInBlack

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^5!!! I'm with RIB on this one, tap that schit yo!

Just telling it like it is. Only problem is, when this thing goes south (which no doubt it eventually will) the husband arrives at the office to moer good dot fellow.

Totally worth it!
 

Loumina

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What if we found another thread here : "There is a sexy man in the office where I work and I think he likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?". And that coming from your wife.
How would you take it?
Well, if you answer that question, then you've got what you were looking for...
 
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