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phil77 said:
Does that mean they love each other just because they have been together fir a long time? Convenience?
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Nothing of the sort.

There is such a thing as genuine commitment you know.

Is was an illustration that there is genuine love in the gay community and it's not all about ****ing around and looking pretty.

It's absolutely no different to conventional straight relationships.
 
Don't seek for meaningful advice on a public forum please do yourself a favor and go see a health professional in the specialized psychiatric field. It did wonders for me when I needed the help and can do the same for you.
 
Ramodiana said:
Indeed the is no restart button in life I mostly feel like this when I'm home, like today I spend the whole day athome. Finding love in gay community is a mission I'm 29 years old only been in 1 serious relationship. I think I should talk to a professional afterwards look at my budget see if I can take my cousin's older son to come live with me.
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I'm gonna be that guy.

Does your extended family know you're gay? If they do, would your cousin allow his/her son to go live with an older gay man? If they don't imagine the reaction later on when they do find out your sexual orientation.
 
saor said:
Then why suggest he get's a wife and starts a family in order to be happy? How would one legitimately do this if you're a gay dude?
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He needs to start the journey to recovery. One cannot just snap your fingers and there you go.
 
Ninja'd said:
I'm gonna be that guy.

Does your extended family know you're gay? If they do, would your cousin allow his/her son to go live with an older gay man? If they don't imagine the reaction later on when they do find out your sexual orientation.
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Agreed
 
saor said:
Then why suggest he get's a wife and starts a family in order to be happy? How would one legitimately do this if you're a gay dude?
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Ummmmmm...........it happens more than you obviously realise.
 
saor said:
Don't use other people to fill the holes in your life. Work on yourself first; learn to look in the mirror and smile.
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This is the only solid advise so far in this thread.

Using an animal or another person(s) to try fix perceived problems is a very bad idea. Ramodiana, you are obviously in quite a depression. I suggest that you need to first learn to accept your sexuality, as this seems to be the biggest issue (as you keep repeating that you are gay). Next, find something you love and do that (sports, hobby, work, etc).

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If you are looking for connection, also try volunteering.
 
Ryansr said:
Don't seek for meaningful advice on a public forum please do yourself a favor and go see a health professional in the specialized psychiatric field. It did wonders for me when I needed the help and can do the same for you.
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Yeah I'm planning to see a professional I thought I would go speak to a pastor at church, but I'm not ready for my judgment day yet.
 
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