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Hi guys. A question. When it comes to looking for a gf or bf or artner or whatever. What do you look for?? Looks? Or whats on the inside? What would be important to you?

To me there has to be some sort of attraction between you and your partner but I also mainly go for whats on the inside. Why are looks so important to most people. I agree they are important to a certain extinct but thats not the be all and end all.

Why do a lot of guys find darker head girls more attractive than blondes....
 
Ha ha this question from someone calling itself "SafferBEAUTY" ;)

You will usually always "spot" a person initially because you find something about them physically attractive. This will raise your interest. Then when you get to know them you will either find them more attractive as a result of their personalities or you will find that you are incompatible. The latter may lead to a short term lust fulfilling relationship but you need the former to last the distance. After all you can only look at that trophy on the mantel piece for so long before another trophy starts looking better. Bottom line is that looks will get you in the door but you'll need something decent inside to make it last.

Your last statement is a real generalisation. I think you'll find it is not the hair that they are actually finding attractive but the whole package. I know both dark haired and blonde girls that I find stunning. A person's verbalised preference may be based on your personal experiences with either type previously. Stereotypes also play a part. Dark haired girls are mysterious and sensual. Blonde girls are ditzy and self absorbed (And I don't believe this myself but that is the general view)
 
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Yeah, that was a generalisation I made but from most of the guys I know they find dark hairds more attractive than blondes. I just happen to be a blondie myself lol
 
LancelotSA said:
Your last statement is a real generalisation. I think you'll find it is not the hair that they are actually finding attractive but the whole package. I know both dark haired and blonde girls that I find stunning. A person's verbalised preference may be based on your personal experiences with either type previously. Stereotypes also play a part. Dark haired girls are mysterious and sensual. Blonde girls are ditzy and self absorbed (And I don't believe this myself but that is the general view)
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Personally, I find that the vast majority of women that I find attractive have dark hair. In fact, I quite dislike blonde for some reason.
The Persian/Spanish look definitely does things to me...
 
Messugga said:
Personally, I find that the vast majority of women that I find attractive have dark hair. In fact, I quite dislike blonde for some reason.
The Persian/Spanish look definitely does things to me...
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Yeah, it is what goes with the dark hair then. The darker olive tanned skin. Blondes can be fair with freckles. But then as insinuated in my post there are exceptions, you will get the olive tanned blonde which can be attractive too. Although it may be with the help of a bottle.

I am a full package guy myself. No hair, boob, butt etc preferences but rather the whole thing put together well.
 
Safferbeauty said:
Hi guys. A question. When it comes to looking for a gf or bf or artner or whatever. What do you look for?? Looks? Or whats on the inside? What would be important to you?

To me there has to be some sort of attraction between you and your partner but I also mainly go for whats on the inside. Why are looks so important to most people. I agree they are important to a certain extinct but thats not the be all and end all.

Why do a lot of guys find darker head girls more attractive than blondes....
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hmmm... have you tried passing grade 7 English?
 
well in my opinion.. if its just a hook up! pure looks.. but dating, ill date happily a girl that is average that has an awesome personality. But if she is average with no personality then no thanks. sought of like a scale.. if she is a 9 in looks she can be a 6 in personality, but if she is a 6 in looks she needs to have a 9 personality!

me and a few mates had this discussion a while back, and its that blondes are generally hot, and brunettes are more sexy. So like a blonde will be hot and you will appreciate her and like her and what ever, but you have a high drive to bang the brunette :P in mens terms

so ya :)
 
I believe beauty is very subjective, and as they say, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
I think more generally, when people go on looks, they relate what they see to their interpretation of how the other person takes care of themselves.

I believe anyone can be beautiful - beauty isn't a set of definitions, styles and bone structures someone has to try to conform to - it's simply taking the best care of yourself, making the best with what you have.
 
So post a picture Safferbeauty and we'll be sure to judge honestly! ;)

Of course to be totally fair it would need to be a bikini one or better naked! ha ha
 
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