Looks

I am very difficult with a lady i tend to find a "bigger" (NOT FAT!!) but a lady who is bigger boned than a lets say a "model". If a "model" type had to try and flirt with me she would very easily be told to shove off by me of course...

And yeah i think that blondes have a reputation of being OTT, but in some woman its flippin cool, especially a natural blonde, its a bit hotter than a brunette, but then again she must have a personality otherwise you can forget it.

Most times with me too is you must not expect me to just jump into a relationship, i'd rather be friends and get to know you better than actually go and do the relationship thing.
 
Safferbeauty said:
Hi guys. A question. When it comes to looking for a gf or bf or artner or whatever. What do you look for?? Looks? Or whats on the inside? What would be important to you?

To me there has to be some sort of attraction between you and your partner but I also mainly go for whats on the inside. Why are looks so important to most people. I agree they are important to a certain extinct but thats not the be all and end all.

Why do a lot of guys find darker head girls more attractive than blondes....
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Physical attraction is importasnt in any relationship. I find it very off-putting when a lady does not look after herself... Have you seen how much difference it makes when someone does a tad more effort and spends some time on their looks? Im not saying that physical appearance is all there is to attraction but it sure does help.

Hot + dumb/boring = No go.
Overweight + clever = No go.

On the "why men prefer darker hair" question: Its different for all men. Most of my friends prefer blonde women while I prefer Darker hair. But that being said when a pretty blonde lady asks for my number i will not say no :D
 
Here's a different approach. Far to many young people in South Africa think that life revolves around relationships. This is not the OC.

Maybe this is a bit off topic but it seems like a fair enough place to post my opinion. There are millions of attractive women in this world, literally millions. Try setting a goal for yourself, something that gives you self worth before wasting time with women. Too many people I knew from matric have got a kid now or messed about in Europe with their girlfriend without any sense of where they were going in life. Now where are they? They're losers with no ambition and they havn't achieved a damn thing. Oh and their single. I find a women who knows where and what she is in life attractive, she can have pink hair for all I care.

Maybe this is too harsh but if it makes you look at this subject from a different point of view thats good.
 
The now deceased great football-player (and great drinker), George Best, once said:

A girl can be attractive by just saying yes.

EDIT: My realization has always been ... the other girl can be as attractive as sin ... but it takes two to tango.
 
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Um well I mean to me they have to be beautiful (not porn star/top model) and be compatible with you...well I guess a personality also makes you more 'attractive'.

lol :erm:
 
There was a study about looks will look for a link i read it in a book some time ago)
Went something like this.
Pretty person walks across the street she drops a lot of books and starts scrambling to pick it up.. every time they did this there were loads of people helping the pretty person.

And so it went to normal looking people, every time they dropped the books there were at least one people helping them.

Ugly people had to pick up the books themselves and the cars got impatient and started hooting.

That is how i realised:
( i live in my own world and looks mean very little., yew i can drool about a sexy man and see a beautiful woman but i never compared myself to them, my brain at that stage did not work like that.)

That I’m ugly... I worked at attorneys and part of my work was delivering and fetching files.
Several times things dropped at intersections in lifts, i would be carrying loads of files and nobody would even attempt to help me.

So people that say looks do not count are just being polite. If you are ugly you will get laid less, have less friends and be used because people prey on your kindness and insecurities.

About blondes and brunettes that is just taste and how their primary care giver looked when they were children. So if blond mommy was nasty and did not give you love you would go for brunettes. .. or so i have read.
 
I'd go into what I find (physically) attractive ... but by the end it's going to sound really porno and simply depress me :/

Hmmmmm ...
 
Empiricism Philosopher said:
If it moves I'll bang it.
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Messugga said:
Everyone, hide your horses and sheep! We have a vagabond on the loose!
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ROFLMAO :D:D

Korn1 said:
Um well I mean to me they have to be beautiful (not porn star/top model) and be compatible with you...well I guess a personality also makes you more 'attractive'.

lol :erm:
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Imo the pornstars I have seen are not all that hot, and neither are most models .. Although Gisele Bundchen, Adriana Lima and Alessandra Ambrosio can come spend a night :D
 
The shooter girl at News Cafe on Saturday was hot ... hmmm
 
Definitely the entire package... His looks would be what would grab my attention initially but if he's boring or lame then it's a no-go.
I place personality ahead of looks, but there would still need to be lots of physical attraction there.
A guy who knows how to start a party and is loved my mates is what I'd go for above anything else, confidence is super super sexy!!!! I've met not-so-hot guys but their personality was scorching and they ALWAYS had gfs haha
 
Devill said:
Was that before or after drinking all their stock? :p:D
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Before the stock ;)

Then she knew I was easy and came back 'this my last tray ...' *big brown eyes*

I bought the tray :/
 
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