Looks

Usually I'd say it's alcohol talking - but when I got to News Cafe (dead sober) my jaw dropped.

She never offered me initially :( But I approached her on one round and then she came thereafter :P I think I spent R320.00 on her within about 30 minutes. She was 19 though ... a little young ... but yea ;)

AND she asked to join her upstairs at Tokyo Sky ... AND I got a wave goodbye :P
 
good looks (natural hair,dread locks), smart...nice permanent tan...light skin does not do it for me :o
 
Looks don't matter to me except lol for these :

- too much body hair including things like moustache (bokbaartjie is fine)
- grossly overweight (unable to walk normally)(plump and normal overweight is fine)
- overgroomer (stylised hair, designer clothing, uncomfortable shoes)

Personality traits that are instant put-offs:

- loudness and too much cussing
- cruelty in any form
- namedropping to impress
- religion in any form (not applicable for light friendship)
- raw racism or sexism or homophobia (narrowmindedness)

Instant attraction:

- intelligence combined with extreme broadmindedness
- creativity or practical skills
- wicked sense of humour, high wit, and dark dark humour appreciation
- science fiction reader
- honest and direct eye contact with slight smile

Yeah, I'm lonely :p
 
wrathex said:
Looks don't matter to me except lol for these :

- too much body hair including things like moustache (bokbaartjie is fine)
- grossly overweight (unable to walk normally)(plump and normal overweight is fine)
- overgroomer (stylised hair, designer clothing, uncomfortable shoes)

Personality traits that are instant put-offs:

- loudness and too much cussing
- cruelty in any form
- namedropping to impress
- religion in any form (not applicable for light friendship)
- raw racism or sexism or homophobia (narrowmindedness)

Instant attraction:

- intelligence combined with extreme broadmindedness
- creativity or practical skills
- wicked sense of humour, high wit, and dark dark humour appreciation
- science fiction reader
- honest and direct eye contact with slight smile

Yeah, I'm lonely :p
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ASL? :P

Seriously though, I think physical attraction is fairly important. If you're not attracted to someone, you won't get to know them so the personality aspect won't play a role. That said, what's beautiful to one person isn't necessarily the same to another. I'm not particularly partial to the super-model look but I find a woman who carries herself correctly to be incredibly attractive. There's just something about a regal demeanor that does it for me.
 
wrathex said:
Looks don't matter to me except lol for these :

Personality traits that are instant put-offs:
- religion in any form (not applicable for light friendship)

Yeah, I'm lonely :p
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Lol, so me complying to all those standards barring one gets me sent to the "light-friendship" corner?

Rofl, I pity people like you cause you fail to see every person is unique in their own way.

I don't like americans but I have met americans that are great people. I hate Aussies but have had some great times with Aussies. I always thought I was a racist till a couple of years back when I realized I just hate stupid people.

Think you are in for a long lonely journey :(
 
We need a dating subsection *cough*
 
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