Its not a pentioner. she must be about late 20's . She's fat and obtrusive. She's a typical trouble maker. I have given her every option to solve this another way, as I have mentioned and even offered to pay a portion of it. SHe's like a spoil't kid in sweets from heaven. She doesnt listen to logic and I actually think she just enjoys moaning.
She moans to you, you moan on this BBS. You could call her flowers, her pets. How would you like it if she kept a dog and that dog chased and mauled your cat each time it came outside?