No way Acid, not every girl is in a rush to get married and start a family. Not every girl is as as crazy as her too...
Although there are quite a few girls who come pretty darn close!
Just thinking abut marriage at the moment makes me nervous... It would take a LOT to make me consider that step. No rush to settle down thank you very much
That girl seems to have forgotten that it takes two committed people for a successful marriage to take place. And the desperation thing must be such a turn off. Why is she begging him to sleep with her? That's pretty pathetic. As someone mentioned, she sounds like the kind of girl who would 'forget' to take her pill just to trap the poor guy. Lame
Damn if some guy started telling everyone I was marrying him before he even asked me it would be the biggest warning sign ever that he is an absolute weirdo and I'd bail straight away! Desperation is never sexy
lol, okay, sit back and relax.... enjoy the moment of wisdom I'm going to throw at you:
Women, when in love and (in this particular case) feel they're going to lose the guy because of the virginity thing (and him respecting it by not trying to have sex with her, which lead to the fear in the first place),
will always bring up marriage.
Yes. Even you.
Why? Simple, you're smitten. It's natural to make suggestions to being married, be it subtle or down right "I'm going to marry you" statements being flung around.
However, when the guy starts responding to this, the fear of losing him (or the smitten feeling combined with this fear, or just the smitten feeling....) will dissipate and the "nervous" feeling you talked about will sink in.
Things like, "I'm too young to get married" and "What if he's not the one" to "I haven't had that many boyfriends before, maybe I should date more people first" and "I still want to travel, if I get married now, then he'll want to have kids and we'll never be able to do this while I'm still young and able to enjoy my life!"
The last part in the case of my ex had a hidden "and I want to **** other guys before settling down" as well, even though I was more than willing to compromise, hell, I didn't even MENTION marriage, she was the one... and then got cold feet and dumped me (many other reasons too) because of her own meanderings... but I'm drifting off topic...
So even though what is happening is
natural in all women the varying degrees do change. Some women get pregnant to "lock him in". Some want to get married ASAP to show him how true she is to him (and wants him to acknowledge the same because physically he's not making any advances)
Now in this case, because he's not making any physical advances trying to take her virginity, is whats setting off this entire "crazy" vibe towards him.
She's not crazy. She's a woman.
Women want to know they're sexually attractive to you even though they don't want you to have sex with them. That's what most guys don't understand and can't tell where the line is.
"But she dressed up and put on make up just to go out with her girl friends!!?"... yes... because she still want to be sexually attractive and hit on, but not to such a degree where it spoils her evening with the girls.
"I want to" with as much as "I don't want to"
Like my dad says, "Boy, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.... you'd need to learn what the balance is to keep 'em happy"
So to the OP.
Welcome to the wonderful world of women.
Try to bone her. See how far you can take it. Even if you do respect her wishes don't stop trying till she says it's not okay to go any further!
Mkay? That way it stifles her need to be married to you for the sake of having sex so that she knows you won't stray (which is a false sense of hope because those things don't guarantee anything)
She'll calm down once you go down. KK?
