Ok. I have ordered my goods
1 x AMD Phenom II X6 1090T 6-Core AM3 3.2GHz Black Edition Boxed Pro R2246.76
1 x Asus M4N75TD 750a AM3 Dual-Channel DDR3 SLI R995.77
1 x Coolermaster RS750-ACAAE3 GX 750w R991.80
1 x Corsair CMX8GX3M4A1333C9 XMS3 4x2GB DDR3-1333 R1081.72
I realize I could've gone with the 965 cpu but I had extra cash so I decided to just get the x6 and futureproof it. I saw a review where they compared the 1090 to the i7-980, and after overclocking the 1090 it almost reached the same results as the i7. Although without the overclocking, the 965 was on par with the 1090 or sometimes a few frames ahead as you guys mentioned, so I think I'll consider overclocking it.
Also the ram I got 8gb cos of the extra cash and to futureproof a bit.
One thing I noticed is that the ram comes in 4x2gb instead of 2x4gb. In the manual for the mobo it says that if all 4 slots are used then there must be 'sufficient' cooling. I've got 2 smallish fans on the side of the case and a large one at the back, does that qualify as sufficient cooling? I've never had a pc with all 4 slots used before.
And also, if I do decide to get another gtx460 in the future and use sli, do you think the psu will suffice?