NYE 2022/23 dilema

The blind leading the deaf.
Bru I'm not trying to chase 20 yo skirt. That's just wrong on many levels.

I actually expected far more criticism and getting ragged on, dropping details on a forum is a public space, and you are inevitably going to get the homeless trying their luck. But that's okay, cause that thread helped far more than it detracted.
 
Bru I'm not trying to chase 20 yo skirt. That's just wrong on many levels.
The bigger the age gap, the less attachment / expectation there should be on it going anywhere.

Similar age you: Hey you wanna get a drink tonight?
Similar age her: Nah maybe some other time.
Then sure, try again some other time.

Big age gap you: Hey you wanna get a drink tonight?
Big age gap her: Nah maybe some other time.
Maybe just leave it at that.

The bigger the age gap, the finer the line between being a creep.
 
Man, you guys are spoiling this guy's libido with all your straight talk and shirt! All he wants to be is ballsdeep at 23:59 asking her "who's your daddy"

To which she'll respond "it might actually be you!"

If that's the idea then he should just go for it

She's either going to say yes or no
 
Man, you guys are spoiling this guy's libido with all your straight talk and shirt! All he wants to be is ballsdeep at 23:59 asking her "who's your daddy"

To which she'll respond "it might actually be you!"
****ing in your 20's: OMGggg
****ing in your 40's: Omg I'm getting steps on my pedometer for this.
 
She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.

i've some news for you;
you're the free drinks old creep !
she'd make sure she surrounded by her mates when you're near and wont accept anything from you except if the barman hands it over or the lid is still sealed
leave the kids alone, you're reeking of dirty old man
 
KFC & a w@nk an option?
Calm down there chief, you will have to warm up something and deal with Mrs Palmer and her five daughters

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As for the question on the table, theres some maths missing.
How old are you - cause if you are double her age and you are.. well like... 30 we going to have a problem.
Else = fair game, stop being a bitch ask her out, you have one life.
 
So I was kinda relying on a friend to organize something with this female I'm a bit into right now...but when I spoke to him earlier it turns out they're both going to different events...so now I'd rather not spend the money (he said >R1k/ticket) to go through with him, but he did give me her number... though I am hesitant to contact her, out of the blue, right now, for a few reasons...

So my question is, maybe we should vote on it; but should I try to make contact with her so long, or does anyone know of anything fun & cheap going on NYE in northern suburbs of Cape Town? (She lives in Cape Town itself & is apparently partying there.)

PS the last time I went out on NYE was 2019
So what have you decided
 
So what have you decided

I actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...
 
I actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...
Do you expect yourself to be with her on new years
 
I actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...
The gravy thickens! And here we thought this was a streetwise two.

I'm guessing she was pleasantly surprised to hear from you after your friend gave you her number. Women just love that btw. It's very thoughtful.

Your relationship, with this female... oh okay, so we don't know the whole story.
 
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