Decarin
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This is not the way...She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.
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This is not the way...She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.
The blind leading the deaf.Spoiler alert: it's compromise, and being wrong and learning from it.
Bru I'm not trying to chase 20 yo skirt. That's just wrong on many levels.The blind leading the deaf.
She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.
The bigger the age gap, the less attachment / expectation there should be on it going anywhere.Bru I'm not trying to chase 20 yo skirt. That's just wrong on many levels.
Man, you guys are spoiling this guy's libido with all your straight talk and shirt! All he wants to be is ballsdeep at 23:59 asking her "who's your daddy"
To which she'll respond "it might actually be you!"
****ing in your 20's: OMGgggMan, you guys are spoiling this guy's libido with all your straight talk and shirt! All he wants to be is ballsdeep at 23:59 asking her "who's your daddy"
To which she'll respond "it might actually be you!"
She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.
and in this fellows case "pedo meter" hits closer to home****ing in your 20's: OMGggg
****ing in your 40's: Omg I'm getting steps on my pedometer for this.
Calm down there chief, you will have to warm up something and deal with Mrs Palmer and her five daughtersKFC & a w@nk an option?

So what have you decidedSo I was kinda relying on a friend to organize something with this female I'm a bit into right now...but when I spoke to him earlier it turns out they're both going to different events...so now I'd rather not spend the money (he said >R1k/ticket) to go through with him, but he did give me her number... though I am hesitant to contact her, out of the blue, right now, for a few reasons...
So my question is, maybe we should vote on it; but should I try to make contact with her so long, or does anyone know of anything fun & cheap going on NYE in northern suburbs of Cape Town? (She lives in Cape Town itself & is apparently partying there.)
PS the last time I went out on NYE was 2019
He’s looking for a KFC with stockSo what have you decided
So what have you decided
Do you expect yourself to be with her on new yearsI actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...
The gravy thickens! And here we thought this was a streetwise two.I actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...
like a restraining order?I actually made contact with her earlier. She mentioned the new year, but I don't want her to expect me to be with her. There's actually quite a bit wrt our relationship I didn't explain here. We'll see how it goes...