Yes, she's all fine according to her latest social media...but...
...in MAJOR NEWS, I strongly suspect, that she may have, in fact, STALKED me!
Bru, all women do that. There is not a woman under the age of 80 that has not profiled nearly every dude in her life. Why do you think women dig those serialized crime shows? Seriously this screams of "I've never actually had a proper relationship"
Trust me, this is not a case of you need to chase her, or act on what you think you know. If this cherry digs you, she will make an effort to speak to you.
You have spoken to her in the last couple of days, I assume. So put down the hunter gatherer instinct for a moment and stop trying to text her. Resolve any admin type stuff (I doubt you are that close) and then radio silence.
One of two things will happen, which should inform your next move (move on, in all honesty, what kind of relationship would this be anyway, you are 40+ and she is in her 20s)
1. She contacts you. - Reply with civility and the little bit of dignity you have left, after laying it all out to her (probably) the first chance you get / got. Be chill, and don't reply immediately, go for a walk around thd block, then reply. Be lekker, and don't expect anything from her. Don't flirt, don't make suggestions, just be lekker.
2. She doesn't contact you. - Walk away. Don't cook up a plan to see her, or contact her, or "run into" her. Just leave it alone. And unless she talks to you, tell your friends you're not interested in talking about her.
Bru, take a chill, be cool and move on. She is not prey and you should be out there living your best life. Not worrying about this kind of crap. Go be interesting.
P.S If you got that info off her socials, you're stalking her too. It ain't worth it my guy, walk away. Trying this hard and you are not cooking her breakfast means it ain't gonna happen.
Go grab a coffee and a croissant in Durbanville, maybe go get a haircut, buy some new shirts, do something for yourself.
