NYE 2022/23 dilema

If you like her then tell her, she will say yes and you will have a lekker new year or she will say no and you will still have a lekker new year
Right now its looking like you will have a sad new year
 
The_Ogre said:
Where in the Northen Suburbs are you?

R1 000 is more than enough bail money
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Edward Street ftw! You could absolutely get some tannie in leopard print heels lit up on pardon "tequila" with a R1000 budget. Not my cup of tea, but hey, I'm sure there is a Tygervalley jaguar out there for him.
 
MagNorthDigital said:
Edward Street ftw! You could absolutely get some tannie in leopard print heels lit up on pardon "tequila" with a R1000 budget. Not my cup of tea, but hey, I'm sure there is a Tygervalley jaguar out there for him.
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Naah, bru. He said he's into jailbait, unless he's at least 40! Which makes him my age.

In Edward Street you won't be able to tell the difference between an 18 or 36 year old anyway!
 
The_Ogre said:
Naah, bru. He said he's into jailbait, unless he's at least 40! Which makes him my age.

In Edward Street you won't be able to tell the difference between an 18 or 36 year old anyway!
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See I'm hoping some Panaroma Puma cuffs him to a bed, to keep him away from the jailbait. Cause him rolling into the forum and hitting us with "the dilemma" begs some questions.
 
Currantly said:
I maybe should have mentioned that I'm almost twice her age....
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Planning for something 'CHEAP' to do on NYE doesn't usually go well with plans to be a master cradle snatcher.

Young birds certainly don't date us older guys because we're better looking or more charming than guys closer to their age. They date us because we're supposed to have lots of money to spend on them.
 
Currantly said:
Edward Street is almost completely dead for a few years now...only place still open is Buckley's.
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Wow, then no, I'd rather drink alone at Spur than Buckleys, ES used to be lots of fun on a Friday night, but this was a long time ago.

Even town has gone to sh_t then. Where does one party these days? Assembley was always lit, or sundowners at the Grand. Alternatively of course, touring long street.

And by party I mean music way too loud, drinks way overpriced and possibly an international dj kicking off a set at 1am - 3am.
 
MagNorthDigital said:
Bru shoot your shot (send her a message, take it on the chin and move on if she shoots you down), if you have been in the same physical location as her, she either knows or suspects, or she's straight dof. It's gonna be kak awkward if you b&g on the same dance floor and then gooi a "hey, didn't see you there"

Being twice her age, is gonna get you shut down real fast. Btw, how you finding your mid 30s? :ROFL:

She's looking for a hookup her age + 3 at maximum, not someone that just started an insta account cause Facebook was getting boring.
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Don't take advice from this oke... https://mybroadband.co.za/forum/threads/advice-on-ending-a-long-term-relationship.1218905/
 
Currantly said:
She's 20+ & I'm 40+, but I look about a decade younger.
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Okay, let's assume that's the truth. (I'm 40 btw)

You going for this chick is still not good for either of you. In fact it's going to end poorly for her, regardless. I know you might not care, few men do, cause they see a potential piece of ass, and they lose frontal lobe activity, but I'll tell you why anyway.

From your side, you're not focusing on what will bring you more opportunity to spend time with many quality women, yourself.

Clearly you want someone to hook you up. And you're actually willing to spend money on getting action. That says more about you than it does about them.

You're not interested in working on yourself, let alone pursuing and working on a relationship. Women develop a fantastic bullshit radar, so most women you've spoken to have already figured that out.

Women that are kind to you, are either raised right (most are) or trying to avoid a "situation". Nice, does not mean wants to jump your bones. Hell, meeting someone for coffee regularly doesn't mean they want something either. So best not to expect anything, from the get-go and keep it that way.

Women act very different when a guy is that much of a catch, you would know, cause she would tell you straight.

From her side, depending how her life is going, she is probably still trying to deal with the working or learning world, it's dynamics and where she fits into it. She is developing long term goals, dreams and interests for herself. In short terms, she is still growing, and exploring what it means to be an adult.

I can tell you right now, the last thing she is thinking about is picking up regrets, she's probably happy with going stupid, but a relationship or encounter with 40+ is not stupid, it's destructive.

You are mismatched in headspace, goals and environment. Next time you see her, say howzit, and keep going. Cause she ain't into you.

Them is the breaks.
 
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