Okay, my hopes are dashed..

Why not TELL (not ask) your buddy that you're GOING TO (not thinking about) have a go at her and ask for hints, tips and advice and then do the opposite of what he says. It clearly didn't work for him.

You'll know where you stand on several fronts and it won't change anything.
 
Waaib said:
Why not TELL (not ask) your buddy that you're GOING TO (not thinking about) have a go at her and ask for hints, tips and advice and then do the opposite of what he says. It clearly didn't work for him.

You'll know where you stand on several fronts and it won't change anything.
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I'd rather him ask the chick first. The buddy can wait.

Its easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission
 
GreGorGy said:
Why are your hopes dashed?

.....and have often had difficulty understanding your type - the shyness, the reserve, the self control...

Is the person referred to in the blogs the same as the one under discussion or are there two or even 3 people referred to here?

If it is the same, your angst over her is just too intense and you must do yourself a favour and do something about it like ask her out now and worry about the consequences if (when) they arise.

If it is two or three people, time to take action: you seem to be on a self-destructive search for happiness where your chances are dashed by your own over-thinking before any progress is made at all. In this case, take action with the very next chick you meet and again, procrastinate the consequences. Don't worry today about what may never be tomorrow because guaranteed if you do, tomorrow you will be alone. again. carpe diem.
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***AMEN!!!***
well said!!
 
markred said:
1 million Zim dollars says she turns him down.
(please note this is a cash bet only and no EFT will be accepted)
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i see your 1 million and raise you 10 miliion zim dollars sayyin he wont even ask....:p

//kidding...no offence meant!!
 
Another emo thread from you ID???
Mate, enough now!

Get to a bar,spend some cash, get drunk, buy some girls drinks and you'll get laid.
Just please dear god, stop with the emoness, it will not get you laid!
 
Just as like poles on 2 magnets don't attract each other, being a ***** does not attract *****. So man up and grab her by the balls. Life, that is.
 
Update:

This is what I did:

I told the lady in question what I thought about the whole thing. Was honest.
She smiled.

We have coffee tomorrow. (going to use the opportunity to ask for partnership in dancing).
:D
 
iDenTiTy said:
Update:

This is what I did:

I told the lady in question what I thought about the whole thing. Was honest.
She smiled.

We have coffee tomorrow. (going to use the opportunity to ask for partnership in dancing).
:D
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Well least you grew a pair!

Just don't act all clingy and insecure, chicks can smell that a MILE away. I posted some advice for someone in another thread last week sometime, think it might have been posted by you? Go look up David DeAngelo and get your s**t together. Trust me, I've been where you are..

*edit*

Just looked it was your thread : http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showpost.php?p=3367399&postcount=38
 
Set up a web-cam and a microphone so all the MyBB forumites can shout advice into your ear :p
 
Chris said:
Set up a web-cam and a microphone so all the MyBB forumites can shout advice into your ear :p
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I see an American Pie scene in the making...:D iD, I hope yours isn't the kind of horse that leaves the gate early. :erm:
 
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