Pleasing a woman

[Electric]

"Is it in yet?"

You do know that's the your hand you're using?

 

[WaxLyrical]

Think like a man en gebruik jou kop.

 

[STS]

Look, realistically, every woman is different, women's anatomy will differ slightly from one another and some things just contribute to either great or terrible sex. You need to understand that just because there isn't an orgasm it doesn't mean it was bad sex, it means you're learning/adjusting

 

[RazedInBlack]

"Is it in yet?"

Lol

Tell me something Emo, where you at least pleased? Its of equal importance. You do know that right?

 

[Alton Turner Blackwood]

"Is it in yet?"

His reply: "I don't know"

 

[crackersa]

get drunk first...gets rid of the tension and pressure

 

[<insert-emo-username>]

If you knew she had a child then why the "Usual techniques and moves"?

Please, tell exactly what she said afterwards.

She seemed unhappy that I was unsatisfied and asked about why that was. Knew she hadn't been either but she brushed it off.

Look, realistically, every woman is different, women's anatomy will differ slightly from one another and some things just contribute to either great or terrible sex. You need to understand that just because there isn't an orgasm it doesn't mean it was bad sex, it means you're learning/adjusting

Noted.

get drunk first...gets rid of the tension and pressure

We were both equally inebriated.

 

[<insert-emo-username>]

You're probably just crap in bed.

If birth was recently, give it time. It is probably a mental thing or performance anxiety.

Birth was 4 years ago.

Was it like throwing a hotdog down a hallway?

 

[<insert-emo-username>]

Lol

Tell me something Emo, where you at least pleased? Its of equal importance. You do know that right?

No. I did not climax.

 

[Ancalagon]

Two words: Kegel Exercises.

 

[Dubes]

Hi
Is it harder to please a woman who has had a child -> natural birth.
Had difficulty this weekend.
Usual techniques and moves didn't work.

Oh, the ignorance of (what one can only assume is) youth....

 

[Datura]

Usual techniques. There's your problem right there. You read an FHM mag once and took notes and now every shag gets the same boring FHM treatment from you. It is far more personal than that and until you get that, stop trying to stick your immature penis in people. FFS.

 

[<insert-emo-username>]

Oh, the ignorance of (what one can only assume is) youth....

Ignorance would have prevented me from asking. Educate me wise elder.

Usual techniques. There's your problem right there. You read an FHM mag once and took notes and now every shag gets the same boring FHM treatment from you. It is far more personal than that and until you get that, stop trying to stick your immature penis in people. FFS.

OP was kept short to get to the matter at hand. I tried everything I know after years of experience and I was still left dumbfounded. Not Mandingo but I definitely do not use the same tricks for every woman. They are different but even still I could not get her to climax.
Looking to enhance my outlook and thus I am asking if anyone has advice. Don't be a dick bro. Help or GTFO thread.

 

[STS]

Usual techniques. There's your problem right there. You read an FHM mag once and took notes and now every shag gets the same boring FHM treatment from you. It is far more personal than that and until you get that, stop trying to stick your immature penis in people. FFS.

you're far too angry to be getting regular sex

 

[smallearth]

Maybe she wanted to be dominated? Maybe she wanted to dominate you? Or get smacked around? Who knows... every woman is different.... maybe the vanilla moves just won't work with her...

In any case, just ignore most of the comments on here... if she is interested in repeating the experiment then ask her how she likes it... if not, move on... thats how it goes...

 

[Electric]

One in the stink and one in the pink...... go from there.

 

[Venomous]

recent child birth?
could be emotional, pst
could be a mental block
could be needing more time to heal there.
could be hormonal if breast feeding - some want action, others don't
could be that she is tired, if baby very young and wakes often.

could be so many other things,

Most importantly - sit her down and talk. Listen carefully when she talks or even if she rambles on....

 

[RazedInBlack]

Most importantly - sit her down and talk. Listen carefully when she talks or even if she rambles on....

. . . stick your dick in her mouth.

Problem solved!

 

[Electric]

Sitting a women down to discuss sex is a bit forced imo.
Sex is supposed to be a bit more spontaneous than that, even if it's planned.

Ever had a Dirty Sanchez or is that a bit much?
Because anything should go in bed imo.

 

[Datura]

you're far too angry to be getting regular sex

Chicks dig it