sonialinden
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Hello. I live overseas, and I'm not from SA, so these things are more difficult to navigate for me.
I lived in Cape Town for about two years total, and I had a maid for about six months, she'd come in once a week. When I was leaving the country she was devastated, because she was losing her only job. We kept in touch over WhatsApp, and she would regularly beg me to ask friends to hire her. I also lent her small amounts of money (probably a mistake because it sets a precedent).
To cut to the chase. Here is what happened.
Last year I purchased a house in Cape Town, and so I made a deal with the tenants that my maid would come in once a week to clean the house, and her pay would be covered by me. They already had their own domestic help, but they agreed to my have my maid come in once a week, because for them it was free help. For me, it was basically a charity, and I pay her above the average rates (I pay her R250 a day).
Yesterday I get on the call with the tenant, and they tell me that my maid only showed up to work 4 times this year, and it's already mid April! Apparently her excuse was that there was taxi violence around Khayelitscha and she is pregnant so she was afraid to come in. I knew that she missed work once - she did text me once back in March saying that she missed work because of taxi violence. I thought it happened just one day, and I asked her to come in another day to make up for it.
So you can imagine how used and foolish I felt when the tenant told me yesterday that my maid only showed up to work 4 times this year, while getting paid every week. I wish I would know about these problems earlier, I paid her every week via money transfer, unaware of her missing so many work days.
Anyways, I want to terminate the relationship immediately, because I don't tolerate being lied to, but the maid is pregnant and due in June. Before knowing about the spotty attendance I offered her three months paid maternity leave and 2 weeks sick leave before she goes into labor. I would normally fire her immediately, but what do I do with the fact that she's pregnant? What would you guys do?
I lived in Cape Town for about two years total, and I had a maid for about six months, she'd come in once a week. When I was leaving the country she was devastated, because she was losing her only job. We kept in touch over WhatsApp, and she would regularly beg me to ask friends to hire her. I also lent her small amounts of money (probably a mistake because it sets a precedent).
To cut to the chase. Here is what happened.
Last year I purchased a house in Cape Town, and so I made a deal with the tenants that my maid would come in once a week to clean the house, and her pay would be covered by me. They already had their own domestic help, but they agreed to my have my maid come in once a week, because for them it was free help. For me, it was basically a charity, and I pay her above the average rates (I pay her R250 a day).
Yesterday I get on the call with the tenant, and they tell me that my maid only showed up to work 4 times this year, and it's already mid April! Apparently her excuse was that there was taxi violence around Khayelitscha and she is pregnant so she was afraid to come in. I knew that she missed work once - she did text me once back in March saying that she missed work because of taxi violence. I thought it happened just one day, and I asked her to come in another day to make up for it.
So you can imagine how used and foolish I felt when the tenant told me yesterday that my maid only showed up to work 4 times this year, while getting paid every week. I wish I would know about these problems earlier, I paid her every week via money transfer, unaware of her missing so many work days.
Anyways, I want to terminate the relationship immediately, because I don't tolerate being lied to, but the maid is pregnant and due in June. Before knowing about the spotty attendance I offered her three months paid maternity leave and 2 weeks sick leave before she goes into labor. I would normally fire her immediately, but what do I do with the fact that she's pregnant? What would you guys do?
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