Relationship Advice

Never updated this.. Huh.
Cut ties with the woman mentioned in the OP. She did come back to me but I wasn't in the mood for games :\

Going through the same thing now again and figured I'd catch up on the advice given long ago :)
 
Never updated this.. Huh.
Cut ties with the woman mentioned in the OP. She did come back to me but I wasn't in the mood for games :\

Going through the same thing now again and figured I'd catch up on the advice given long ago :)

this is the best advice you're ever going to get from me.

get a hooker. ditch the girl.

there is always my current girlfriend too...

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Never updated this.. Huh.
Cut ties with the woman mentioned in the OP. She did come back to me but I wasn't in the mood for games :\

Going through the same thing now again and figured I'd catch up on the advice given long ago :)

Let the relationship develop in its own good time. Find common ground and send a few emails or texts every now and again about the common interest. If she likes you she will respond in kind.

Don't act like you are in a serious relationship when you are not. You also need to be impervious to rejection, it helps.
 
Let the relationship develop in its own good time. Find common ground and send a few emails or texts every now and again about the common interest. If she likes you she will respond in kind.

Don't act like you are in a serious relationship when you are not. You also need to be impervious to rejection, it helps.
Thanks GF.
Many girls play games - so there's probably a 1:2 chance that everyone you meet is going to be like that
True.
/foreveralone.jog
 
The more people you include in your life, the more complicated it becomes, thats just how it works.
 
It's not like he's using his current girlfriend on his son...

I am referring to the circumstances the poor child is growing up in. The child's mother is a drug addict and the father advocates the use of prostitutes. Does not sound ideal to me.
 
I am referring to the circumstances the poor child is growing up in. The child's mother is a drug addict and the father advocates the use of prostitutes. Does not sound ideal to me.

i'm sorry. i meant to say i'm a good christian that reads my bible every day, that sings in the choir on sundays and that has aspirations of meeting a new stranger to introduce into my son's life. sex and masturbation is a terrible sin :p
 
i'm sorry. i meant to say i'm a good christian that reads my bible every day, that sings in the choir on sundays and that has aspirations of meeting a new stranger to introduce into my son's life. sex and masturbation is a terrible sin :p

I am not interested in what you consider sin. Religion is irrelevant here. This is about childhood development. Think psychology.

I am looking at this boy who is exposed to a mother who uses drugs - that little secret will not be kept hidden forever - and a father who think it is OK to objectify women as a mere tool.

Maybe it is OK for you. I would want to raise children differently.
 
I am not interested in what you consider sin. Religion is irrelevant here. This is about childhood development. Think psychology.

I am looking at this boy who is exposed to a mother who uses drugs - that little secret will not be kept hidden forever - and a father who think it is OK to objectify women as a mere tool.

Maybe it is OK for you. I would want to raise children differently.

OMG Blu :p

his mother gets to live the life she wants to live, i've spoken to her about it and she can smoke pot as much as she wants, so long as she doesn't do it around him. i'm not going to run her life or babysit her, and we're adults and there are some things we do need to keep from our son, like our sex lives, the stupid stuff we did in our lives, our finances, horror movies, where we hide the chocolates, etc. if he finds one of these things out, we deal with it, because we love him :)

i do not objectify women, if Pho3nix batted for the other team i'd recommend a male prostitute. it was meant as a joke because his situation sounded bad, as was my hand being up for use :p you know i've been through a divorce and i'll probably never be in another relationship again, because i'd rather be home with my son than out trying to see if some woman is compatible in my life and trying to get a laid. sometimes it is lonely laying in bed alone, but that is the direction my life has taken.

so if my son wants to visit a friend and i get the urge to one day to pay a prostitute for sex and nothing more, i will do it, because i want my son to have a happy life and not have another woman in his life because daddy says so :p
 
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