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Okay I need help with my unique situation. I have to sketch this in detail so it can make things clear & I am bound to get a lot of flack for how I went about messing up my life and everyone involved.

I am in the process of getting divorced. I met Lady G about a year ago & we were in a serious relationship for about 8 months. Now I have a history of seeing someone for 8 months and then bail out. Every year since 2006 this has been the pattern.

So true to form this year around my birthday I did it again. I met another woman Lady L fell head over heels in love. Had a intense 6 week relationship & she bailed on me (I can hear the ladies say PAYBACK). Now I am still deeply in love with Lady L & she says she is in love with me BUT has been hit hard by some unexpected issues that needs to be sorted out. Lady L is a very independent & because of what has happened to her she has lost some of that Independence.

In the interim Lady G & I became friends and things developed. I was honest with her from the get go that I cannot start a serious relationship with her because I am in my heart with someone else.

Now you know the background now for the STUPID mistake I made.

I informed Lady G that I cannot continue seeing her cause I do not feel the same way about her as she feels about me. Once I stood in front of her and tried explaining to her the details I caved in and recanted and proceeded to ask her to move in with me STUPID I know I saw the look in her eyes and just could not face the tears YET again.

The past weekend Lady L came around to my office and we had a talk. It felt right we both still are in love with each other. Now the question is. HOW DO I TELL LADY G that things has spiraled out of control. Lady L also asked me what about Lady G Yes L knows about G :eek:

Okay that is the jist of my self inflicted situation. Go ahead lambaste me of even better give some advice. I know someone is going to get hurt no matter what I do. I am looking for a situation where I can minimize the damage done.
 
Try get em to both move in with you.

You have messed up so bad that i think it would be worth the risk and the pay off could potentially be better than all the kuk you are about to receive.

On a serious note just be a man tell the chick that just moved she has to move out, not easy but there is not really any other way of doing it.
 
bex.cpt said:
Okay I need help with my unique situation. I have to sketch this in detail so it can make things clear & I am bound to get a lot of flack for how I went about messing up my life and everyone involved.

I am in the process of getting divorced. I met Lady G about a year ago & we were in a serious relationship for about 8 months. Now I have a history of seeing someone for 8 months and then bail out. Every year since 2006 this has been the pattern.

So true to form this year around my birthday I did it again. I met another woman Lady L fell head over heels in love. Had a intense 6 week relationship & she bailed on me (I can hear the ladies say PAYBACK). Now I am still deeply in love with Lady L & she says she is in love with me BUT has been hit hard by some unexpected issues that needs to be sorted out. Lady L is a very independent & because of what has happened to her she has lost some of that Independence.

In the interim Lady G & I became friends and things developed. I was honest with her from the get go that I cannot start a serious relationship with her because I am in my heart with someone else.

Now you know the background now for the STUPID mistake I made.

I informed Lady G that I cannot continue seeing her cause I do not feel the same way about her as she feels about me. Once I stood in front of her and tried explaining to her the details I caved in and recanted and proceeded to ask her to move in with me STUPID I know I saw the look in her eyes and just could not face the tears YET again.

The past weekend Lady L came around to my office and we had a talk. It felt right we both still are in love with each other. Now the question is. HOW DO I TELL LADY G that things has spiraled out of control. Lady L also asked me what about Lady G Yes L knows about G :eek:

Okay that is the jist of my self inflicted situation. Go ahead lambaste me of even better give some advice. I know someone is going to get hurt no matter what I do. I am looking for a situation where I can minimize the damage done.
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Stop thinking with your small brain. There. Advice done.
 
killadoob said:
Try get em to both move in with you.

You have messed up so bad that i think it would be worth the risk and the pay off could potentially be better than all the kuk you are about to receive.

On a serious note just be a man tell the chick that just moved she has to move out, not easy but there is not really any other way of doing it.
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She has not moved in YET

PythonFSi said:
Ok! Let me get this:

You want someone on this forum to do the job for you!
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No I want some advice or did that part at the end escape you DUH :eek:

Dixie said:
Nah, you're OK. Just wait for eight months and lady K will solve everything...
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I guess the part where I am head over heels in love with Lady L was not clearly understood :rolleyes:
 
I know some people. let's get rid of Lady L for you.
 
Well if she has not moved in yet what is your dilemma? you do not want her to move in so tell her.

Bam dilemma over.
 
bex.cpt said:
I guess the part where I am head over heels in love with Lady L was not clearly understood :rolleyes:
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It is. But by tour own admittance "Now I have a history of seeing someone for 8 months and then bail out", you will be a free man again, highly probable to be in love with our fictitious lady K :)
 
And the lady you are busy divorcing??...who is that?? Confused... :confused:
 
bex.cpt said:

No I want some advice or did that part at the end escape you DUH :eek:
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Dude! I'm not the one that caved in! You p u s s y ! :p

Ok! You want to minimize the damage you've done?

Try S&M! Lady (whatever) will love whipping the s h 1 t outta you.
She'll feel a whole lot better. You'll feel sore for maybe 2/3 weeks.
You and Lady(whatever) can get back to bonking each other!
Problem solved!
 
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Keeper said:
I know some people. let's get rid of Lady L for you.
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Not a option at all

killadoob said:
Well if she has not moved in yet what is your dilemma? you do not want her to move in so tell her.

Bam dilemma over.
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If you have to look into her eyes you would not be able to do that. I don't think I can see that again

Dixie said:
It is. But by tour own admittance "Now I have a history of seeing someone for 8 months and then bail out", you will be a free man again, highly probable to be in love with our fictitious lady K :)
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Well ever since I met Lady L things has changed. I truly believe I can build a future with her.
 
Are you thinking with your heart or (your) Dick Tracy? :erm: You in love and yet you already let (your) Dick Tracy overpower you to allow Lady G to move in so (your) Dick Tracy can be sorted while Lady L is sorting herself out, how convenient :rolleyes:
 
bex.cpt said:
If you have to look into her eyes you would not be able to do that. I don't think I can see that again
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bex.cpt said:
Well ever since I met Lady L things has changed. I truly believe I can build a future with her.
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It's one or the other... think about both options and imagine yourself a month, a year, 5 years down the road after choosing each one.
 
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