Restraining Order

Maybe he borrowed a tracking device and stuck it on your car or something. If he did and you find it and link it back to him he would be in big ****.
 
Cameronsmith63 said:
Do you think that I am going overboard? I need an answer...

Okay here we go. There is this guy that is telling my gf all sorts of stories that I am cheating on her and all that. He is married to her best friend. So I am going to explain why I think I need an order of protection. First of all, I can't bliksem him, simply because he is a policeman.

1) He sees me talking to a girl in the parking lot, he tells my gf that I am touching her inappropriately.

2) He tells my gf that there are girls sleeping over by my place every night.

3) He tells my gf that I was in the club with my colleagues and that I am cheating on her with one of my colleagues (My colleague has a bf, this guy doesn't even go to clubs but he knows that I was there, so obviously he told one of his friends to keep an eye on me)

4) I was in an area very far from where he lives, I was in that pub for only 5 minutes (I ***** you not) just to check it out (its an underground pub with Golems and other mystical creatures, i had to take a look for myself), and guess what? for that 5 minutes that I was there, he knew I was there, and yes, he told my gf.

How he gets hold of this information beats me, I don't even see him, he doesn't go to any clubs, I go to places far away from him, so how the heck can he have all this information???

What do you think I should do?
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Hire a private eye, Sounds like he is stalking you...
 
The pubs name is Tonians in Paarl, not even worth mentioning. He doesn't have money for a tracking device, my gf had to buy them a months food in Decmeber...she's still waiting for her money.
 
I had a issue like this long ago - we broke up because she didn't trust me - and I'm happy for it because I heard she eventually slept with the guy, got pregnant and he went and well... I got my revenge indirectly. :D

You have to rid your life of this guy - as in, end the friendship, or something because it will only get worse.

The problem is now that, he has planted the seed of doubt in your GF's mind.
She might not even know it but let me tell you, if you come home late or something like that, she will suspect something and it will come from this seed that he has planted.

This guy is obviously bored and wants to cause issues (unless he has alterior motives) so that's why you need to get him out of your life or it will only get worse.
 
You could attack his credibility. Excuse the fanciful imagination, what you can do is get your friends and stage an act. Assuming he is tracking your car somehow, you could lend the car to a trusty friend for a weekend night to go to a club that is packed (hard to see you in the crowd), while you do something else thats completely innocent and beyond doubt with proof or spend time with your gf (must be away from everyone, otherwise the sham is over if he knows and he won't spill any false beans). When he reports this debauchery of yours, unless your gf is really retarded (no offense :D), it should be plain and clear that he is lying through his teeth. To get more extreme, get a friend that is similar in size and height and have him dress in your clothes and look like you (as seen from afar, unless youre really lucky to have a friend that even has a facial similarity). If he is stalking you, the person and not the car, he is most likely doing this from afar or getting some one else that you don't know who doesn't know you (well). You will need to get everyone who is doing this on the same page, one obscure phone call from a "telemarketer" asking for you and you aren't there when you supposedly are will sink the ship.

Rinse and repeat.
 
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Cameronsmith63 said:
The pubs name is Tonians in Paarl, not even worth mentioning. He doesn't have money for a tracking device, my gf had to buy them a months food in Decmeber...she's still waiting for her money.
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I don't know if he wants to sleep with her if he's afraid the help she's giving him will evaporate if you decide to tell her she needs to stop helping them?
 
So I was on my way to buy milk at Checkers this morning, this was around 9AM, I opened the door of my apartment. Guess who is standing 3 meters away from it?
 
Cameronsmith63:7718593 said:
So I was on my way to buy milk at Checkers this morning, this was around 9AM, I opened the door of my apartment. Guess who is standing 3 meters away from it?
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Try take pictures of him around your place.
 
Cameronsmith63 said:
Dude, i don't wana start jack with this police man. Seriously. That would only give him more attention to take things further.
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Talk to him....tell him "Hey I don't like you informing my girlfriend about my whereabouts 24 ****ing 7, why are you doing it? Do you mind stopping please and get a bloody life while you're at it. That would be what my conversation would sound like.

Just because he is a policeman doesn't mean that he is entitled to be a d00s 24/7 or that you're suppose to be scared of him. It sounds to me that you are.
 
Arrange to park your car outside a strip joint or a brothel and spend that evening at home with your girlfriend so she is your alibi. So when he blabs to her where you were, she should soon realize that he is a troublemaker.
 
D3x! said:
first off, are you cheating?

second off your GF seems to have some reason not to trust you, or she wouldn't be listening to this guy

and lastly be honest and open
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she's a woman, she'll believe any piece of **** on the street except her boyfriend. that's how this stuff goes down
 
ITCynic said:
Arrange to park your car outside a strip joint or a brothel and spend that evening at home with your girlfriend so she is your alibi. So when he blabs to her where you were, she should soon realize that he is a troublemaker.
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he doesn't have to go to these extremes. just dump the ****ing bitch if she doesn't trust him. not worth the fight in the long haul because women believe what they WANT to believe no matter how much you try to convince them otherwise
 
Cop or not I would seriously Po€s klap him, I have no respect for cops or weirdos.
 
Nicodeamus said:
grow a pair and confront him about it. Seriously
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Dont listen to this advice unless you are ready for violence, and violence where he can say you assaulted a cop. Cops thrive on confrontation and thats what he wants, and if you throw a punch and it becomes a "my word vs his word"... the judge will likey take his side without evidence, and assault on a cop (especially if his other cop buddies get involved) is bad. Its even worse if he is a bad cop... cause then he can easily get a nigerian to sort you out.

Tell your gf about the stalking and how its making you uncomfy... if she wont do anything about it, break up with her. Anyone who is willing to allow that type of psycho into their lives is not worth getting closer with (unless her dad owns a brewery).

My wife is fully committed to me, and would never allow this type of stuff into our lives... if you are compromising and accepting less from the woman you are with perhaps you are with the wrong woman.
 
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