Romance at work

TheGuy said:
Hi Everyone

I’ve been browsing the forums for a while and this seems like a good place for some advice.

There's this girl at work that for some stupid reason I can't get my mind off. I previously thought about asking her out but decided against it for a couple of reasons.

I know the best way to get over a girl is to find another one but at the moment I’m busy studying and working so I don’t have time to run after girls.

Any idea what I can do to not think about her while at work?
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Been there and seen many taken-down by office romances. Are you (or is she) your boss? Is their a ranking involved? If there is, and you are superior you open yourself to exploitation and charges of sexual harassment. If a dumping situation occurs, you still have to work with her. Awkward.

A very bad move. Don’t s**t on your own doorstep.
 
Think about the bad things you heard about her, then you will forget her! Easy!!
 
Ok I've decided to go for it and ask her out. I've liked her for close to a year now and have not done anything about it and it still bothers me. So clearly not doing anything isn't helping.

Will try to do it in the next couple of days and update here.

Wish me luck!
 
TheGuy said:
Ok I've decided to go for it and ask her out. I've liked her for close to a year now and have not done anything about it and it still bothers me. So clearly not doing anything isn't helping.

Will try to do it in the next couple of days and update here.

Wish me luck!
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This is like deja vu...
 
TheGuy said:
Ok I've decided to go for it and ask her out. I've liked her for close to a year now and have not done anything about it and it still bothers me. So clearly not doing anything isn't helping.

Will try to do it in the next couple of days and update here.

Wish me luck!
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So? How did it go?
 
Don't break the 'The Platinum Rule'!!

tell us what happens :D
 
Update

Ok just to let you guys know I tried really hard but it didn't work out eventually. Every time I make an effort she ignores me then when I say screw it she comes running and dresses up really nicely and the prances around me. Then I'll will make an effort then she will move away.

This is really a waste of time but I still cannot get her out of my mind.

Any other advice?
 
She sounds like a car guard. Kick her inna panty.
 
Wait for an office party - get her really drunk... make your move.

...this plan worked for my girlfriend, she apparently had a crush on me...and I didn't notice, and had a girlfriend at the time... then one office party she fed me lots of wine, can't recall much of that night...
 
TheGuy said:
Ok just to let you guys know I tried really hard but it didn't work out eventually. Every time I make an effort she ignores me then when I say screw it she comes running and dresses up really nicely and the prances around me. Then I'll will make an effort then she will move away.

This is really a waste of time but I still cannot get her out of my mind.

Any other advice?
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Tap that!
 
NEVER **** where you eat brah. At my gym there is this really hot girl working at the frontdesk. We kinda flirt a lot and im sure she does wan't a piece of DjTay, but im not gonna take the chance.

I like my gym to much and IF she says no (highly unlikely but still) it would be waaay to awkward to go back.
 
Djtay said:
NEVER **** where you eat brah. At my gym there is this really hot girl working at the frontdesk. We kinda flirt a lot and im sure she does wan't a piece of DjTay, but im not gonna take the chance.

I like my gym to much and IF she says no (highly unlikely but still) it would be waaay to awkward to go back.
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Your right but how do I get my mind of her if she keeps rubbing it in my face and looking at me funny when I'm trying to avoid her?
 
TheGuy said:
Your right but how do I get my mind of her if she keeps rubbing it in my face and looking at me funny when I'm trying to avoid her?
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Just avoid her more. Shes an attention wh0re. She doesnt want you, she just wants attention. She needs male attention to feel good about herself.

So start ignoring her completely. If she wants you, she'll make it known. If she doesnt, she'll feel insecure, give you more attention, but not necessarily make a move. Just keep ignoring her and the problem will go away.
 
TheGuy said:
Your right but how do I get my mind of her if she keeps rubbing it in my face and looking at me funny when I'm trying to avoid her?
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She sounds very immature. Woman are attention whores. Don't give her any. I don't know what so hard about not thinking about her. What makes her so special? Go out, meet someone else. IF she is interested in you she will make the next move.

Fuuuuuuuu...read my mind.

Just do what Ancalagon says.
 
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