Romantic relationships with work colleagues

Pitbull said:
Wife can keep it. I'll get a new one xD

Truth be told, not even thought about it. But yea, this whole thing is a mess. And only because I messed up my own rule... NEVER CATCH FEELINGS! But it is what it is. I'm just going on about my life as normal atm. She the Redhead has her hot and cold days. Some days she just want to see me and chat and, yes and... Other days it's like she's avoiding me. So for the last week or so I just ignored her flat out.
Being extremely busy with work again helps. Will see what happens, maybe I don't even ever speak to her again. But it's not fun I can tell you that, mind and feelings all over the place. Haven't felt like this is over 20 years xD
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Marry her. If Zuma can have 9 wives, why can't you have 2?
 
Some quite interesting reading in this thread, topic caught my eye as this is something relevant to my situation.

Plus, I see that I am breaking all the rules mentioned here... she is younger than me, works in the same department, but at least besides me having slightly more experience than her, we are on the same professional level.

I am married, she has been with they guy for some time now. She started at the company a year ago or so, but we hit it off from day one, heck, I mentored her.

We tell each other almost everything, so maybe I am more in the friend zone than end zone. Whatever, I like what is going on here. I have made no secrets about my feelings for her.

Our respective partners are aware of each other, and our relationship, that has caused some friction on both sides, naturally. Our colleagues are also aware of our, closeness, so no secret there either.

I don't know where it's going from here. If it stays as is, I will be happy, if it advances, well, same.
 
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Bismuth said:
Some quite interesting reading in this thread, topic caught my eye as this is something relevant to my situation.

Plus, I see that I am breaking all the rules mentioned here... she is younger than me, works in the same department, but at least besides me having slightly more experience than her, we are on the same professional level.

I am married, she has been with they guy for some time now. She started at the company a year ago or so, but we hit it off from day one, heck, I mentored her.

We tell each other almost everything, so maybe I am more in the friend zone than end zone. Whatever, I like what is going on here. I have made no secrets about my feelings for her.

Our respective partners are aware of each other, and our relationship, that has caused some friction on both sides, naturally. Our colleagues are also aware of our, closeness, so no secret their either.

I don't know where it's going from here. If it stays as is, I will be happy, if it advances, well, same.
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Pics? Cup size?
 
Pitbull said:
Not a fk'ng chance... I can barely keep house with one, imagine TWO?
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What about the stories I saw from the US, guy has two complete separate families in two separate States? Pure insanity.

Ofc, this was long before the internet and the world being as connected eg. social media, as it is now.
 
purple face said:
did you say a strap on? a penis?
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No chick says "banging the new anything"
So my advice to him, is if she is up for it, he should ride in with some durex gold, like the princely man he is.

I would tell him to attempt flirting / romance, shave the chest hair, trim the beard, shampoo and make sure he deals with the halitosis before he attempts to light the fires, but one can only hope for so much.

So strap up, it is.
 
Bismuth said:
Some quite interesting reading in this thread, topic caught my eye as this is something relevant to my situation.

Plus, I see that I am breaking all the rules mentioned here... she is younger than me, works in the same department, but at least besides me having slightly more experience than her, we are on the same professional level.

I am married, she has been with they guy for some time now. She started at the company a year ago or so, but we hit it off from day one, heck, I mentored her.

We tell each other almost everything, so maybe I am more in the friend zone than end zone. Whatever, I like what is going on here. I have made no secrets about my feelings for her.

Our respective partners are aware of each other, and our relationship, that has caused some friction on both sides, naturally. Our colleagues are also aware of our, closeness, so no secret there either.

I don't know where it's going from here. If it stays as is, I will be happy, if it advances, well, same.
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Surely you know she is using you for protection and clout right? My guy, as nice as this feels, it's career advancement on easy mode. If it ain't you, it would be some other guy.

So, easy way to figure this out.

Would you be jealous if she got her freak on with Michael or Dave, at the staff party?

How would you feel if she got promoted and didn't have as much time for you?

The fact that you are "happy" now, or if it advances, means you would put her on the photocopier first reasonable chance you get.

It seem as if you caught feelings and she caught aspirations.

Do right by your partner first, either way, she will respect you more (and you will retain a little bit of respect for yourself) if you break it off before making a move on her.

Men might consider leftovers, women like their man like they like their steak. Lean Prime Cut, aged to perfection.
 
Bismuth said:
Some quite interesting reading in this thread, topic caught my eye as this is something relevant to my situation.

Plus, I see that I am breaking all the rules mentioned here... she is younger than me, works in the same department, but at least besides me having slightly more experience than her, we are on the same professional level.

I am married, she has been with they guy for some time now. She started at the company a year ago or so, but we hit it off from day one, heck, I mentored her.

We tell each other almost everything, so maybe I am more in the friend zone than end zone. Whatever, I like what is going on here. I have made no secrets about my feelings for her.

Our respective partners are aware of each other, and our relationship, that has caused some friction on both sides, naturally. Our colleagues are also aware of our, closeness, so no secret there either.

I don't know where it's going from here. If it stays as is, I will be happy, if it advances, well, same.
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so did you bang her as yet or just fell heavily inlove

and what you mean partners know about it ...they know you guys are inlove or what

why dont yourl have a 4some or something
 
Met my wife a few days before she started working at the same place as me.
That was around 18 years ago.
 
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