Romantic relationships with work colleagues

I worked with a couple of females I would have loved to do the horizontal mambo with... But I am way too introverted to ever start something... Also, being in a senior position, it would definitely be a bad idea... Did manage to once hook up with an ex coworker that I fancied though...
On the other hand... You only life once, F__k it!! (pun intended)....
 
My wife has had a couple of NSA relationships with her male colleagues though... However, they were well aware that it was only NSA...
 
Pitbull said:
Don't ever shoot yourself down. Every pot has a lid. Shoot your shots, what's the worse that can happen? Rejection? pfft... Move on to the next one. Never ever see yourself as shrek, wtf is that even. I'm the hottest man alive! Even if only I think so xD
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True that - as my late mom pointed out, Shrek got Fiona sooo...
 
Never had, but was proposed to by younger female worker. Also, a few approaches at conferences.

I think it is because I have title and status in my field. Always start talking about wife and family when they get flirty. Nip that **** in the bud.
 
rh1 said:
Never had, but was proposed to by younger female worker. Also, a few approaches at conferences.

I think it is because I have title and status in my field. Always start talking about wife and family when they get flirty. Nip that **** in the bud.
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Mr BBEEEE ?
 
rh1 said:
Never had, but was proposed to by younger female worker. Also, a few approaches at conferences.

I think it is because I have title and status in my field. Always start talking about wife and family when they get flirty. Nip that **** in the bud.
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And ruin my chances of getting laid? Not a chance!
 
Well just imagine if we were not taught sex is something that should be done in a marriage only and we were raised that sex is a basic human need and completely natural... Something that we should not be ashamed off, like eating a sandwich during lunch...
What a wonderful world that would have been... I would definitely not work during lunchtime like I do now...
 
MagNorthDigital said:
Surely you know she is using you for protection and clout right? My guy, as nice as this feels, it's career advancement on easy mode. If it ain't you, it would be some other guy.

So, easy way to figure this out.

Would you be jealous if she got her freak on with Michael or Dave, at the staff party?

How would you feel if she got promoted and didn't have as much time for you?

The fact that you are "happy" now, or if it advances, means you would put her on the photocopier first reasonable chance you get.

It seem as if you caught feelings and she caught aspirations.

Do right by your partner first, either way, she will respect you more (and you will retain a little bit of respect for yourself) if you break it off before making a move on her.

Men might consider leftovers, women like their man like they like their steak. Lean Prime Cut, aged to perfection.
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Actually makes sense, and funnily enough, we have a Michael and Dave working for us... are you sure I don't know you?

But, in my case Michael is gay, so doubt they would get it on, and as for Dave, well... I believe he is happily married, but who knows. I don't think I would be jealous, just pissed it's them and not me.

I think you are right, I caught feelings, she caught aspirations.

Again... do you work with me? :unsure: If you did, well, we don't have one of those big-ass copiers, more a desktop MFP-type thing...

I.am.Sam said:
so did you bang her as yet or just fell heavily inlove

and what you mean partners know about it ...they know you guys are inlove or what

why dont yourl have a 4some or something
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No banging as yet, so I think the latter...

No, our partners are aware of us and each other, and that we work closely together. Her partner and my wife in a foursome, lol, THAT will be the day. Our respective partners are as jealous as heck.
 
WaxLyrical said:
Many broken marriages ended up with co-workers looking to taste some forbidden fruit and only regrets.
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This is very common. The most common combination is senior manager/boss and young female staff. Often the woman are attractive and do it more as a means of getting a promotion/job/salary raise.

Sometimes the wives of the senior managers even know (obviously ESID) but they act as though they don't know.
 
JuliusSeizure said:
This is very common. The most common combination is senior manager/boss and young female staff. Often the woman are attractive and do it more as a means of getting a promotion/job/salary raise.

Sometimes the wives of the senior managers even know (obviously ESID) but they act as though they don't know.
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You are so wise, you really must be jesus
 
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