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We have 2 kids, pricey pricey pricey.
R1500+ on grocery shopping a week for the 4 of us plus nanny.
No credit cards in our family, still on FNB basic account with no bank charges applied.
The new middle class has no clue about money matters and making debt left, right and centre. The BMW, Italian shoes and eating out are a necessity. No one saves first and buys later, rather pays a shatload of interest to loan sharks.
Nobody "forced" the middle class into poverty, the big chunk of them are living well beyond their budget. When you can't handle an electricity price hike, you got only your unsustainable lifestyle to blame.
Yeah, kiddies = expenses. And lots of it![]()
But I love my kids![]()
Good to hear about the CC. We have one (Game) that I'm paying off. As soon as it is paid off, I'll close it (no matter what Frau Hitler will say) as I don't want that millstone around my neck anymore.
FWIW I would advise newlyweds and young people not to have any children unless they have a very secure financial footing.
And to work very carefully with their money, like avoiding things like credit cards etc...
Nobody "forced" the middle class into poverty, the big chunk of them are living well beyond their budget. When you can't handle an electricity price hike, you got only your unsustainable lifestyle to blame.
I disagree. A cc is an excellent thing to have. Just make sure you do full debit each cycle, i.e. no finance charges and don't spend more than you can. What next, getting rid of overdraft?
And if you do need money suddenly for real emergencies, it's there.
FWIW I would advise newlyweds and young people not to have any children unless they have a very secure financial footing.
And to work very carefully with their money, like avoiding things like credit cards etc...
Thats exactly what were doing. We have two cars paid off. Theyre small cars but one is under 40000km and the other under 100000km. Going to be riding the lowest mileage one for another 10+ years, and selling the other to get a Jazz or something more suited to children (second hand).
My wife and I work strictly with cash and only use credit cards to build a credit rating. Bank is pestering me to increase limits and upgrade, I just ignore them.
When I was younger I came to the realisation that people are working backwords.
They make debt. Then Pay it off. Then they have to make debt again and the cycle continues.
I thought "why dont you do it the other way around?". Suffer in the beginning and save up. Then you have cash and buy what you want. Then you can save up again and have cash when you need it. Also no interrest expenses this way.
I cringe at the thought of making debt, except for Education, car(if no other way) and a house.
Yeah, kiddies = expenses. And lots of it![]()
But I love my kids![]()
Good to hear about the CC. We have one (Game) that I'm paying off. As soon as it is paid off, I'll close it (no matter what Frau Hitler will say) as I don't want that millstone around my neck anymore.