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Pho3nix

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visrot said:
One should be prepared and cover all bases.
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Kinda gives the idea that you've already given up.
Atleast your faithful to your wife and not looking to cheat but rather get a sex toy to help with your frustrations
 
Mars

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AstroTurf said:
Simple suggestion but anyway.

Pay careful attention to her for hours before bed (if you don't do this already).
Treat her like a goddess, take a bath or shower with her, undress and wash her, you know...

Set the mood.
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Furk. That works but to have to do all that crap every time you want a bit of nookie is hard work and a serious turn off. It almost becomes like begging for sex. There needs to be some kind of attraction to start.

My wife also struggled with low to zero libido for years. It was rough. We also checked for hormones and all that. She would always provide when I wanted it but the feeling that she was doing a duty rather than sharing an experience was a massive turn off for me.
Yea I'll say it again. It was rough.

It was like that for about 2 years, then over a period of about 6 months or so suddenly for no apparent reason she 'woke up' again. Things are back to the way they should be now. Have been for about 3 years or so.
 
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Madman88 said:
Furk. That works but to have to do all that crap every time you want a bit of nookie is hard work and a serious turn off. It almost becomes like begging for sex. There needs to be some kind of attraction to start.

My wife also struggled with low to zero libido for years. It was rough. We also checked for hormones and all that. She would always provide when I wanted it but the feeling that she was doing a duty rather than sharing an experience was a massive turn off for me.
Yea I'll say it again. It was rough.

It was like that for about 2 years, then over a period of about 6 months or so suddenly for no apparent reason she 'woke up' again. Things are back to the way they should be now. Have been for about 3 years or so.
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You've nailed my situation solid and center on the head....:erm:
So there's still hope
 
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Be her fantasy man, ignite her sexual fantises. Find out what they are and become them, and dress up, dinner, movie and wild sex at home. Be spontanious to spice up the sexy time ;)
 
Looney

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If she's not banging you... Chances are she's banging someone else :wtf:
 
The_Mowgs

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Nerfherder said:
Is she on the pill?

My wife lost a lot of libido after taking the pill. Now that she is off it I now have to lock my self in the spare room from time to time.

Be careful of some of the antidepressant options then as some of them counteract the pill.
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What contraceptive do you use then?
 
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I've convinced the wife to use Enduramax from Vital. At this point it seems like the next logical step to take.

If it works great, if it doesn't I need to fork out R990 :p
 
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crysis

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Tried a bottle of wine, and a candle lit dinner? Always works for me.
 
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[video=youtube;82wM8s-_2RM]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=82wM8s-_2RM[/video]
 
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She just woke me up early morning like out of the blu . Said she doesn't know what came over her.

Not the Vital, only used that for a few days
 
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MisterFortySomething

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visrot said:
She just woke me up early morning like out of the blu . Said she doesn't know what came over her.

Not the Vital, only used that for a few days
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Congrats, I think?
Or was this entire thread just an elaborate excuse to make sure everybody knows when you get laid? :D

If you don't mind me asking, in what age bracket do you and your wife fall?
 
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visrot said:
She just woke me up early morning like out of the blu . Said she doesn't know what came over her.

Not the Vital, only used that for a few days
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Who Got it all this morning :D
 
WaxLyrical

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visrot said:
She just woke me up early morning like out of the blu . Said she doesn't know what came over her.

Not the Vital, only used that for a few days
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You haven't told us squat dude. I get woken up every morning out of the blu.

We want analysis.

:D
 
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