Serious problem, messing up the relationship

eehellfire said:
Many people aren't reading properly... OP is not having sex.
He his fooling around with his lady with BJs and HJs.

Once again, it is quite possible that her technique on these activities is lacking. If he still can't finish when they start having intercourse, then it's an entirely different scenario
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Ummmm.... how's trying different positions not relevant?
 
Had a similar issue, think I even started a thread about it :whistle: turns out the problem was her, she just sucked at it.

Don't be too hard on yourself. ;)
 
abzo said:
Had a similar issue, think I even started a thread about it :whistle: turns out the problem was her, she just sucked at it.

Don't be too hard on yourself. ;)
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The more she sucks at it the better its supposed to be.
We need a better word to describe poor suckability.
 
abzo said:
Had a similar issue, think I even started a thread about it :whistle: turns out the problem was her, she just sucked at it.

Don't be too hard on yourself. ;)
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But I couldn't even cum when I did it. What did you do about her being bad at it?
 
JamesX said:
But I couldn't even cum when I did it. What did you do about her being bad at it?
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I couldn't when I did it either but I could when she left. Still don't understand why, think I was just nervous because I've wanted her for a while and finally got her.
 
Leave Mrs Palmer alone for awhile. get the chick to work on those parts for some time.
 
Do her doggy style, if that does not work she's either fugly, the wrong sex, or you have serious performance anxiety.
 
JamesX it sounds like you're just nervous. Were u guys drinking before the action went down? Alcohol can make it harder to cum.

Just don't worry about it so much. When I was a teenager I was an orgasming ninja when it came to w@nking, but my first gf had to suck me off for probably 15 minutes before I blew my load. She just didn't have good skillz, but I only realised later. When I got around to sex I probably lasted a minute the first time. You WILL cum when you get in there! :)
 
Okay I'm not going to go through 500 pages of sex advice. Mine would be for you two to engage in foreplay. Get kinky man. Take charge. And for crying out loud, relax. And also, since you have this chick now, stop with the porn.
 
Sounds to me like you have a bit of a mental block going, not to mention a vicious circle going round and round. Get your mind off it and enjoy the journey....dont focus so much on the end destination. Instead of all the focus being on you, move it over to her for a bit. Foreplay dont always have to be just foreplay...but can be main play too. Explore her body, touch her....focus on giving her pleasure and have her do the same to your body. Dont just pull off your pants and start tossing or shove it in her mouth! There are so many other places to explore with fingers and mouth.

I have a friend that I hook up with sometimes....and most of the time there is no climax. Just hours of exploring, licking, touching and stroking. It also gives a sense of closeness that a BJ or HJ simply wont give..specially if you care for her.

So again....just enjoy the journey and rest of your and her body. Stop focussing on just knocking one out. It lasts all but 3 - 5 seconds...but what comes before can go on for hours!
 
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