(Note no PIV,PIA took place during these incidents)
Met a girl a few weeks ago and we hit it off. Few days later we did everything but have sex and I couldn't come, she blew me and Jacked me off, nothing. I then thought maybe I need to do it, so I jacked myself off, I even tried jacking off in the position I always do it in, nothing, absolute nothing, I was tugging away furiously, I didn't even get to the stage where I could feel it coming up.
(Note we are in a relationship now)
After that we didn't see each other for a few days (Not because of the incident, I went away on holiday). On holiday I masturbated, when I came back me and the girl arranged to meet up, so we did, I hadn't masturbated in 4 days. So we got together again, then again nothing "came" I was lying down this time though. I think it's kinda messing with her (and me) because when she saw I didn't come she kinda looked sad and wanted to stop.
I think the problem could be is that I hardly masturbate to my imagination. I always have porn when I masturbate and in the same position (sitting upright). Also whenever I've been with her it's been in the dark, so the visual aspect is gone. So any advice?
and yes I did masturbate a lot before meeting her and she is my first sexual girl friend.
TL;DR: can't come during sex, quite demoralizing, need help
Met a girl a few weeks ago and we hit it off. Few days later we did everything but have sex and I couldn't come, she blew me and Jacked me off, nothing. I then thought maybe I need to do it, so I jacked myself off, I even tried jacking off in the position I always do it in, nothing, absolute nothing, I was tugging away furiously, I didn't even get to the stage where I could feel it coming up.
(Note we are in a relationship now)
After that we didn't see each other for a few days (Not because of the incident, I went away on holiday). On holiday I masturbated, when I came back me and the girl arranged to meet up, so we did, I hadn't masturbated in 4 days. So we got together again, then again nothing "came" I was lying down this time though. I think it's kinda messing with her (and me) because when she saw I didn't come she kinda looked sad and wanted to stop.
I think the problem could be is that I hardly masturbate to my imagination. I always have porn when I masturbate and in the same position (sitting upright). Also whenever I've been with her it's been in the dark, so the visual aspect is gone. So any advice?
and yes I did masturbate a lot before meeting her and she is my first sexual girl friend.
TL;DR: can't come during sex, quite demoralizing, need help
