Seriously this is not an Emmo thread..its a question!

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thing is ive always been able to approach and get on with the outgoing unreserved types of girls with no problem coz you tell it like it is and so do they...and you go on
now there's this new girl in the picture, but she's the complete shy, reserved hush hush type.......but im :love: ya...
so the thing is with this type of girl theres no way of gauging where i stand or where things are going...coz i ask and she wont say never has ...we've been out we chat its all good...i told her how i feel etc....but when i start poking with questions things go silent and the subject changes...i know...well think she must be into me...i mean she took me out few times as well so how does one gauge this situation without being pushy towards the shy one??
 
Dude there is being shy and there is being that chick.

She sounds seriously shy. Have you tried asking her straight out? She took you out? WTF is that all about?
 
Geez man up and just ask straight out :p If it's not the answer you're looking for then move on. There's no point in trying to guess what a woman thinks, because their minds change more often than their underwear. The longer you're stuck in the friend zone, the harder it is to accept an answer that doesn't suit you. So rather get it over and done with early on.
 
*SynergyX* said:
thing is ive always been able to approach and get on with the outgoing unreserved types of girls with no problem coz you tell it like it is and so do they...and you go on
now there's this new girl in the picture, but she's the complete shy, reserved hush hush type.......but im :love: ya...
so the thing is with this type of girl theres no way of gauging where i stand or where things are going...coz i ask and she wont say never has ...we've been out we chat its all good...i told her how i feel etc....but when i start poking with questions things go silent and the subject changes...i know...well think she must be into me...i mean she took me out few times as well so how does one gauge this situation without being pushy towards the shy one??
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WTF is this?? :wtf:

http://i.imgur.com/MFEQB.jpg
 
timgaul said:
What's an Emmo? An Inuit with too much eye shadow?
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Wahahahaha!
Thanks.
:D

*SynergyX* said:
thing is ive always been able to approach and get on with the outgoing unreserved types of girls with no problem coz you tell it like it is and so do they...and you go on
now there's this new girl in the picture, but she's the complete shy, reserved hush hush type.......but im :love: ya...
so the thing is with this type of girl theres no way of gauging where i stand or where things are going...coz i ask and she wont say never has ...we've been out we chat its all good...i told her how i feel etc....but when i start poking with questions things go silent and the subject changes...i know...well think she must be into me...i mean she took me out few times as well so how does one gauge this situation without being pushy towards the shy one??
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Ok...a bitty confused here.
She took you out?

That is about all I could understand without punctuation marks and proper sentences. :o
 
I can see where this thread's going!

Anyway, to answer your question, as Smooth Criminal said, just ask straight out. That's the only way....otherwise, move on. It's not a maybe situation, but a clear-cut yes or no one. If she's into you in any way, then pushy shouldn't be a concern.

Plan B....what Python said. :D
 
killadoob said:
Dude there is being shy and there is being that chick.

She sounds seriously shy. Have you tried asking her straight out? She took you out? WTF is that all about?
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ya she had this thing and she needed a date so she took me out....
dammit i never had this problem before....these shy reserved mommy's girls baffle me!! and i did ask straight out...all i got was a smile and a change of subject....hence me problem...there are no clear cut answers here!!
 
seriously...man up or just make it obvious to some extent that you got the hots for her.
i remember about 4 years ago how shy i used to be around women... one day i just got fed up with the fact that i DONT know if the lady likes me or not so i just started dropping hectic hints that make it obvious.ive been rejected a *****e load but if you like a girl you like her...no need in putting on an act or trying to play it cool.
 
*SynergyX* said:
thing is ive always been able to approach and get on with the outgoing unreserved types of girls with no problem coz you tell it like it is and so do they...and you go on
now there's this new girl in the picture, but she's the complete shy, reserved hush hush type.......but im :love: ya...
so the thing is with this type of girl theres no way of gauging where i stand or where things are going...coz i ask and she wont say never has ...we've been out we chat its all good...i told her how i feel etc....but when i start poking with questions things go silent and the subject changes...i know...well think she must be into me...i mean she took me out few times as well so how does one gauge this situation without being pushy towards the shy one??
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Go easy on the elipses there, dude.
 
*SynergyX* said:
ya she had this thing and she needed a date so she took me out....
dammit i never had this problem before....these shy reserved mommy's girls baffle me!! and i did ask straight out...all i got was a smile and a change of subject....hence me problem...there are no clear cut answers here!!
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Well...if you asked her, got a smile followed by a change of topic, then she probably does like you or you would've got an immediate no. Point it, no answer is probably a yes, so this is what I say you should do: Just get it over and done with, man up, snog the girl and let the good times roll! If that fails...well, then you've got a clear cut answer and problem solved.
 
Emo thread disguised as question...
Except, she's the emo!

So think down the line: wanna have just a quick sexsion with her or long term? If long term, can you handle the guessing game? If so, what was said: man up! If not, move on.
 
Every chick has a BGF (Best Gay Friend). Maybe she thinks you're it, in which case you're only confusing her with your advances.
 
PythonFSi said:
start poking with body parts and see where that leads to.

Yo got nothing to lose! ;)
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Lol!!!
:D

Men :rolleyes:

porn$tar said:
Every chick has a BGF (Best Gay Friend). Maybe she thinks you're it, in which case you're only confusing her with your advances.
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Yip, this is the worst thing you could be to a girl.
If she does think of you as just a BGF, then there is no way in hell to get with this chick... IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!!!

Also, if she is shy as you say then I suggest you ask her how she feels about you so you can settle this. She would never tell you how she feels if you don't ask her.
 
Was going to type some long winded, detailed reply but seriously now...

Just kiss her! Or at the very least put your arm around her when you're out and see how she reacts.

None of those boring chats where you discuss how you feel etc etc.

You both either feel it or you don't, end of story

Honestly, a situation is only as complicated as you make it. She either likes you as a boyfriend or has already designated you to the friend zone. Surely it's better to find out as soon as you can instead of stressing about it?
 
Lush said:
Was going to type some long winded, detailed reply but seriously now...

Just kiss her! Or at the very least put your arm around her when you're out and see how she reacts.

None of those boring chats where you discuss how you feel etc etc.

You both either feel it or you don't, end of story

Honestly, a situation is only as complicated as you make it. She either likes you as a boyfriend or has already designated you to the friend zone. Surely it's better to find out as soon as you can instead of stressing about it?
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Plak one on her just like that? :eek:

My ***, he'll give the girl a fit!:wtf:
 
Lush said:
Was going to type some long winded, detailed reply but seriously now...

Just kiss her! Or at the very least put your arm around her when you're out and see how she reacts.

None of those boring chats where you discuss how you feel etc etc.

You both either feel it or you don't, end of story

Honestly, a situation is only as complicated as you make it. She either likes you as a boyfriend or has already designated you to the friend zone. Surely it's better to find out as soon as you can instead of stressing about it?
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See...another one agrees! ;) Actions speak louder than words, and making the (first) move, if she's not into you, you'll have all your answers...good bye uncertainty!
 
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