Sexual Fetish Obsession

the_don46 said:
Smalltownsky

My word, you got some issues there. I congratulate you for identifying this, and being proactive by attempting to take preventative precautions / actions.

Firstly, how DOES your wife actually feel about you throttling her? Does she know you actually WOULD WANT to go "all the way" as mentioned in one of your earlier posts? This, especially this point, scares me. It SHOULD scare you and your wife.

You sound very compassionate and I think the reason you are not a serial killer is that you have a conscience. However, I do believe your recognition of your fetish as being a problem to you requires URGENT pyschological aid.

I'm not a pyschologist so have no further advice. My late father was, and he had a number of people in similar situations to yours. Some could control their deep, dark fantasies. Others, however, couldn't.. Believe me when I say you shouldn't be looking for advice online and rather seek professional help urgently. The last thing you want is your fetish taking over and you "following through" on ANYONE.
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don, i appreciate your comments too :)

i never wanted to go all the way, but i do find it hard sometimes to brush my feelings and urges aside. by urges i don't mean to strangle someone until they're dead, i mean like want to touch my wife's neck, put my hand around it, make her tilt her head back. i would never hurt my wife or anyone else :)

i know my fantasies are very dark, and because of my taboo fantasy i've looked for and seen other dark fantasies. it's hard having a fetish and then still trying to be more righteous than people have the same fetish as me but just want to hurt and degrade the person, or people who have crushing fantasies. i can image how it looks to most people because i used to be afraid of sharing it because it was extremely personal :)

but i can assure you i would never hurt one, no matter how dark my fantasies are :)
 
smalltownsky said:
don, i appreciate your comments too :)

i never wanted to go all the way, but i do find it hard sometimes to brush my feelings and urges aside. by urges i don't mean to strangle someone until they're dead, i mean like want to touch my wife's neck, put my hand around it, make her tilt her head back. i would never hurt my wife or anyone else :)

i know my fantasies are very dark, and because of my taboo fantasy i've looked for and seen other dark fantasies. it's hard having a fetish and then still trying to be more righteous than people have the same fetish as me but just want to hurt and degrade the person, or people who have crushing fantasies. i can image how it looks to most people because i used to be afraid of sharing it because it was extremely personal :)

but i can assure you i would never hurt one, no matter how dark my fantasies are :)
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smalltownsky

I wish you the best of luck.
 
I thought you might be a bit of a basket case...now I am just more intrigued. Dammit!
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Dude, I am broken in ways you cannot begin to imagine.

But I'll leave it at that and let you stew.
 
I must say, now that I think about it, I don't have any fetishes. A closet full of fantasies yes, but no fetishes... :cry:
 
BrendanD said:
Dude, I am broken in ways you cannot begin to imagine.

But I'll leave it at that and let you stew.
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Broken is such a negative term...
I prefer to look at myself as "unique" and "interesting" as opposed to broken.
It is like comparing a Dali to a Rembrandt and considering the Dali to be broken because he does not follow what is considered to be the "norm".
*tsk tsk*
 
Kage said:
In what way do you like pain?
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My turn on the couch? Let's just say a woman's gotta have long nails and not be afraid to use them. Welts are good, maybe with a bit of blood drawn.

I'll stop there before I say too much...
 
porn$tar said:
My turn on the couch? Let's just say a woman's gotta have long nails and not be afraid to use them. Welts are good, maybe with a bit of blood drawn.

I'll stop there before I say too much...
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Hmmmm...that could be something...if a bit obvious...
 
porn$tar said:
My turn on the couch? Let's just say a woman's gotta have long nails and not be afraid to use them. Welts are good, maybe with a bit of blood drawn.

I'll stop there before I say too much...
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Too late!

You have been found guilty of having a fetish!

Now, go start a thread!
 
The weirdest (not grossest) fetish I've heard about is amputee fetish.
 
There was a chick that wanted her hubby to strangle her a bit when they have sex.
he was scared and didn't like it, so he goes to this therapist that tells him it's ok to choke her a little bit, and pull her hair, etc...

this was on a penn & teller episode.


go figure, you need to contact that man and swap wives.
 
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