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I have read many of your tales of woe with a WTF look on my face.
In my life, I have been a very bad person. Fidelity has not been a close friend of mine. If there is one thing I do know, it is that this cheating business has only sad endings. At least, sad endings for a person like you whose personal existence has become so important to us at myBB.
Of all the advice that is offered here, the one you don't expect or want is mine: make up your own fkn mind! Seriously. While we will never tire of your endless, incestuous existence, there comes a time where you must take life by the balls and decide what it is you can tolerate, forgive and live with and what it is that defines your point of no return.
It is nihilistic I know but trust me. People like me - "that guy" - are waiting (like fkn parasites) in the wings and we can smell weakness and prey on it and while I may have changed my own conduct, a million guys just like me populate whatever town you find yourself in. There must come a time (and I believe for you it is high!) when a man must carve his own path and in doing so, own his future.
Don't ask us if it is forgivable or tolerable or forgettable - ask News24. The answer is within.