She cheated

news24

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Hi,

Guys I know that I'm at the bottom of the food chain for most members here, I'd appreciate it if you could reserve the insults later.

Anyways, my 12year old brother apparently caught my girlfriend kissing some dude. She denies it , I feel betrayed, what can I do ? My brother never lies, and has nothing to gain by telling me that. I trusted her. I am so torn apart, we were supposed to get married this December and move to Huston together.
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Lino

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Hi,

Guys I know that I'm at the bottom of the food chain for most members here, I'd appreciate it if you could reserve the insults later.

Anyways, my 12year old brother apparently caught my girlfriend kissing some dude. She denies it , I feel betrayed, what can I do ? My brother never lies, and has nothing to gain by telling me that. I trusted her. I am so torn apart, we were supposed to get married this December and move to Huston together.
:(

Shame dude if it's true
 

NeonNinja

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She also cheated (she did intercourse). But I still love her, A LOT. Call me crazy. She is my baby girl.
 

satanboy

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You mean Houston don't you?

Confront her again and tell her that you won't be upset NO MATTER what she tells you. If she continues telling porkies move on, because you will NEVER be able to trust her.

If she tells the truth...decide then how you feel about it.
 

DJ...

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Get back at her by fscking another one of your cousins...
 

Lycanthrope

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Sit her down, tell her that you want the truth and that if she lies to you, you will leave. If she confesses then at least you know you've got some honesty out of her which is a good start if she's remorseful. If she denies it then it's up to you to whether you want to believe it or not.

Either way, you need to decide what the course of action will be.

I'd say it's pretty much over one way or the other. But perhaps if she's honest with you then you can work together and move on. If not, what's the point?

A relationship is built on a foundation of trust, commitment and honesty. Without that, it's nothing more than a joke.

P.S. Another drama in your life, news24? Do you ever have a moment without soap opera-esque events taking place? :p
 

Ockie

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Sorry to hear News24. Aint she pregnant also?
 

Mike Hoxbig

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It's her last fling before she moves with you. Cut her some slack, there's no family on that side so she's not going to do it again.
I could have sworn he said a while back she is pregnant. Perhaps I imagined it.
Nah he tried getting her preggies IIRC.
 

R13...

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I could have sworn he said a while back she is pregnant. Perhaps I imagined it.
No you're not imagining it, he did post a pregnancy test stick showing a positive result. I think the thread got deleted in the end, but he also posted a link to a sex story site (that he promptly removed). He claimed to draw inspiration from the site.
 

stoymigo

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I'd say you're in a tougher position not knowing whether she cheated than if you did know, another thing she's pregnant so I can't rly help as I know someone who's been cheated on but knew it and there wasn't pregnancy involved.

Maybe include your brother and her in a conversation(even if it sounds ridiculous), or get more info solely from your brother about this.
 

tsume

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It's her last fling before she moves with you. Cut her some slack, there's no family on that side so she's not going to do it again.

Nah he tried getting her preggies IIRC.

She is pregnant, remember there was a thread news24 made where he was showing the pregnancy test kit results.

Which makes me wonder what dude will willingly get with a pregnant chick who has someone unless she is not showing and she lied about news24
 
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Nicky_G

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Maybe your brother wants the two of you to break up so he can get some family love as well.
 
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