She is not the one.

Madman88 said:
Love DOES mattery. Love is the ONLY thing that matters.

Its when people think that love is something outside of their control that it screws things up. Lust is the thing that out of your control. I'm not talking about biblical sin or whatever. I'm talking about the lust for something you may not have right now. Be it a piece of ass or the need for affection, its all a kind of lust.
Love = giving.
Lust = taking.

Love is something you choose to do. If you really choose to love your partner you will get the things you lust from the person.

The general conception of love is "How can you make me feel love?"
Its wrong. It should be "How can I make you feel loved"

If someone takes something from you your natural instinct is to guard what you have left. So a relationship based on lust will end up empty.
If someone gives you something valuable that you want and need, your natural instinct is to give something of value back. That’s why a relationship based on love (not the warm fuzzy feeling in your stomach or a tingly feeling in your crotch, but a decision to love) ends up full and happy.

This idiot is just trying to justify his Lust.

Kikim inna crotch!
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Yes i can give you his nick but because im the better person i won't, whatever helps him sleep at night, let him carry on fooling everyone and himself.

And in response to what i have quoted, you right, this notion of perfect love is krap.
Love takes work, something he knows absolutely nothing about. What happened in our relationship was REAL life, bills, kids etc.
Storybook endings is exactly what it is ....for the storybooks but then again how could i expect someone who lives vicariously through his pc and thinks connecting with people is logging on to even know what REAL life is.
He will learn his lesson and he will feel the loss - as said, once Lady A becomes boring its onto the next perfect love he moves sucking her dry. Thank God i am young enough to move on, thank God for technology that leaves nothing private. Now the tools and skills he taught me turn on him, i think karma. If not i would have continued to believe all the soppy bull he has been trying to feed me.

I leave you men with one thought, when you go home tonight, love your wife/partner, serve her make her feel like the beautiful Goddess she deserves to be and work on that love, you will see someone new emerge. I garauntee it.

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly, unfortunately betrayal is the only truth that sticks around after.

O and thanks for the support. i look forward to a fulfilling life with someone deserved, with a man who can show my son what a man really does for a woman!

Any of you know some a those:-p
 
Betrayed said:
Very long and interesting post
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Lady, it seems like you are a classic glutton for punishment. Next time choose better.

You are right about how a man should take care of the mother of his child and he is a douchebag for behaving the way he did - but if I read your post correctly, then you were given warning signs earlier on in the relationship... Heed them next time and I really hope you find someone who is worthy of you. Don't fall into the trap that a lot of women in your position fall into and "just accept" whatever you get.

Good Luck.
 
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I must actually thank you for your post.

I too have been spending too much time in front of the PC lately.
We have been together for more than 6 years now and getting married next year. And I must admit that your post opened my eyes with regard to giving her more attention.

Just phoned her now and told her I love her, also taking her out for movie and dinner tonight. Something we loved to do but I have neglected lately.
 
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Well, you did say you got pregnant "against your better judgement" but everybody makes mistakes so you just have to take it from here and do your best . . . and ofcourse look after your baby. So all the best to you and your child!



BTW! are you hot?
 
What an ass that guy is! gud luck! Thank u for the reminder. So easy to take things for granted!
 
Odracir ... and where is anon now
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Probably asking Lady A help him type and intelligent response to the pwnage he just got handed to him :D

What a moron..
 
Smokey - I hear ya and trust me i will NEVER fall in that trap again.

PythonFSi - Yes i am hot:-)

I get a sick pleasure in knowing she is getting my sloppy seconds, i hope when she lies with him all she imagines is me sitting on his face.
ooo did i say that, sorry for the crudeness of it, i am actually a lady

But it does feel sooooooo good
 
Betrayed, if you didn't have kids I'd propose to you. Hell I won't mind being treated like that. Plus I have a job and treat my women better than they ever experienced before... but hell to have that returned to me sounds pretty damn nice.

Good luck. And if the OP reads this... duuuuuuuuude. WTF?
 
AcidRaZor said:
Betrayed, if you didn't have kids I'd propose to you. Hell I won't mind being treated like that. Plus I have a job and treat my women better than they ever experienced before... but hell to have that returned to me sounds pretty damn nice.

Good luck. And if the OP reads this... duuuuuuuuude. WTF?
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+1 she does sound awesome !

hopefully she finds someone to treat her the way she deserves.

ps

stay away from snake boy...pythonfsi :D
 
Betrayed said:
Smokey - I hear ya and trust me i will NEVER fall in that trap again.

PythonFSi - Yes i am hot:-)

I get a sick pleasure in knowing she is getting my sloppy seconds, i hope when she lies with him all she imagines is me sitting on his face.
ooo did i say that, sorry for the crudeness of it, i am actually a lady

But it does feel sooooooo good
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Because my "friend" Python is feeling very womanly at the moment, I'll reply on his behalf.

Pics or it's a lie.
 
Betrayed said:
Yes anon thinks Lady B is stupid but Lady B is alot more intelligent than what he gives her credit for, as you can see everything comes out, lies never let lie.
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Looks like he learnt that the hard way, although it does sound like he has a learning problem. :D
Yes im tired of competing with the pc for attention, its quite pathetic how it defines him, without it he is nothing. also pathetic how he posts as anonymous but also posts as himself, being sympathetic to himself, conceited maybe?
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Considering that, I see no reason why you shouldn't tell us what his other "nick" is, and he's most likely not going to show his face here anyway.

BTW, good luck and it sure looks like you've learnt lessons in how to select the next man.
 
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