She is not the one.

Betrayed said:
Smokey - I hear ya and trust me i will NEVER fall in that trap again.

PythonFSi - Yes i am hot:-)

I get a sick pleasure in knowing she is getting my sloppy seconds, i hope when she lies with him all she imagines is me sitting on his face.
ooo did i say that, sorry for the crudeness of it, i am actually a lady

But it does feel sooooooo good
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revenge sex feels even better.............

/thinking.........as someone else said, i find writing style of anon and betrayed very similar......................hmmmmm
 
Early in this thread, I noted that when the Bulls win the CC, I will no longer care about any of the parties. That said, I have very little time left. In 12 hours I will be hammered and celebrating so here goes:

anon: Betrayed B just ripped your manhood away. It was not a tough rip though because, it would seem, there really was not much to start with. It seems further that you may have been outted and your anonymity is shot. You could regain something by confessing your sins OR fixing this mess you have made. How you would fix it though is quite a challenge and while this faith-based solution is intended for broken marriages, it may just be of help to both of you: http://www.retrouvaille.co.za/
It sure helped me and my wife regain our marriage.

Betrayed: You sit in a very delicate and sensitive situation and have my sympathies. From your first post, I can however deduce that Lady A is not the real problem. If anon is a layabout shiftless daydreamer who can't even change a nappy, it may be worth considering that this betrayal is in fact a Godsend. My wife and I each have children from previous encounters (although neither of us were married before). Her relationship ended on a sour note and her son's father is useless at best. My daughter's mother and I ended our relationship amicably and have both enjoyed a happy future - we get on just fine and do the best we can for our child. My daughter and my wife's son have been raised as and behave and relate to one another as brother and sister. For the good of your child, you may not want to rebuild this relationship AGAIN.

To Lady A: My son says thanks for last night, you dirty little minx you. Erm, I mean, 'ho 'ho 'ho! (As in 'Tis the season - what were you thinking?)
 
There is nothing to build back, how can I try build something that apparently never existed?
If in 8 yrs he could never feel like i was the '1' then he never will. That is the harsh reality i have to face.,
We did have good times and i thought our differences is what made us unique and special not pulled us apart. I thought being best friends was cool. But when really your heart was never in it in the first place, none of the above matter, does it?

Do i believe he gave everything as i did, sadly no. Do i find it unforgivable, sadly yes... , maybe one day i can. Forget, NEVER. That is what will keep me from making the same mistake

Yes i do deserve better, i will never change who i am, i will always loyally serve my family and my man as that is what makes me happy BUT this time i will ensure i get it in return and not settle for second best.
There are good men out there and i am not looking for my perfect love because to me it just does not exist, I hope to find someone who is my equal in everything, faults and all, unconditional love. And that man has big shoes to fill as i am pretty awesome.

Right now the only man for me is sleeping in a little bundle comfortably under mommies watchful eye, now that is unconditional love:-)
 
Betrayed said:
There is nothing to build back, how can I try build something that apparently never existed?
If in 8 yrs he could never feel like i was the '1' then he never will. That is the harsh reality i have to face.,
We did have good times and i thought our differences is what made us unique and special not pulled us apart. I thought being best friends was cool. But when really your heart was never in it in the first place, none of the above matter, does it?

Do i believe he gave everything as i did, sadly no. Do i find it unforgivable, sadly yes... , maybe one day i can. Forget, NEVER. That is what will keep me from making the same mistake

Yes i do deserve better, i will never change who i am, i will always loyally serve my family and my man as that is what makes me happy BUT this time i will ensure i get it in return and not settle for second best.
There are good men out there and i am not looking for my perfect love because to me it just does not exist, I hope to find someone who is my equal in everything, faults and all, unconditional love. And that man has big shoes to fill as i am pretty awesome.

Right now the only man for me is sleeping in a little bundle comfortably under mommies watchful eye, now that is unconditional love:-)
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lol @ bolded quote...

and no offense, my sister's been through this **** too... R10 says you go back to him or he somehow convinces you to stay together.
 
Damnit, some people are really swak. Don't you lot know that this could be turned into one killer reality show...
 
AcidRaZor said:
lol @ bolded quote...

and no offense, my sister's been through this **** too... R10 says you go back to him or he somehow convinces you to stay together.
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NOPE never, NEVER!! I know who the woman is 2 so it makes me even more sick. I could NEVER sleep next to him in a bed again, i cant even bare to look at him.
So no, k you lose give me my R10:p

I keep thinking this will be my last post.. but keep coming back cause you guys make me laugh, i read all the posts over and over and keep myself motivated
Man, once again its stupid to air your dirty laundry on a public forum especially when you have such a intelligent BETTER half like me:D
Besides i'm hotter than A, ha! and I do take pleasure in that....
 
Betrayed said:
NOPE never, NEVER!! I know who the woman is 2 so it makes me even more sick. I could NEVER sleep next to him in a bed again, i cant even bare to look at him.
So no, k you lose give me my R10:p

I keep thinking this will be my last post.. but keep coming back cause you guys make me laugh, i read all the posts over and over and keep myself motivated
Man, once again its stupid to air your dirty laundry on a public forum especially when you have such a intelligent BETTER half like me:D
Besides i'm hotter than A, ha! and I do take pleasure in that....
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my ignored offer still stands, but time is running out...............
 
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