I think I should clarify, when I mentioned house I was thinking more in line with a 900 m[sup]2[/sup] holding that houses a family of 4 or so. A regular cemetery is a great deal larger than that, for instance Braamfontein Cemetery is approximately 210 000 m[sup]2[/sup] - that's a lot of space smack bang in the middle of Johannesburg that is being used for nothing else but storage of decomposing bodies. (West Park Cemetery is approx 1 000 000 m[sup]2[/sup])
You're comparing a 900m2 space which caters for 4 with a larger space which caters for 1000s. I'd argue also that 900m2 is a luxury for a family of 4. They don't need so much space.
Linking to my statement above, why not get rid of the bodies and turn it into a public open space. In my opinion a public park would be a better use of space than a cemetery. Hell, maybe even turn the space into an inner city farm - you know the ones where they experiment with hydroponics or vertical farms it would be a first for South Africa if I remember correctly. You are correctly stating that I am valuing something above something else, in this case I'm valuing the living over the dead. Sure it creates a link for people, but I when I die I don't want a tombstone to be a legacy or the only lasting thing I've left behind. My legacy must be something more profound that a rock with my name on it.
The tombstone is not your legacy. At least that's now what's understood by many of the people who bury their dead in cemeteries. As to what would be better, it's again YOUR value judgement. There are many spaces we could do this. Why not turn some of the strip joints into such? Or strip malls? Or parks? Or peoples' property. Where I live people live in huge houses some costing R15million and up. Do these people really need so much space?
I should have clarified this further, I don't see property value as the de facto when deciding anything, I put that in because a cemetery is a dormant place, not much activity in terms of human activity but I see it as space that can be developed into something so much more useful to society.
Useful to you. That cemeteries exist, means they're already useful for many people in society. What you're essentially saying is telling all these people who find use in them to get lost, because your values trump theirs. That you're happy with telling other people how to live in a time where we're no longer judging gays or prostitutes-- people who at one stage were judged quite severely, tells me your system is old fashioned and needs to be rejected for modernity's sake. You also seem to lack compassion. You don't really try to think of the other people who value cemeteries, eh? I hope you try to think of others, and how they feel, ne?
One word: stigma. The is generally a stigma associated with building over burial sites, probably thanks to media and superstition - thanks Poltergeist. With regards to us having tons of land available, sure we do have a lot available but we have to remember we cannot use our arable land and this would mean travelling vast distances to a burial site. I don't know about you but the last thing I want to do at a funeral is travel a large distance.
I dunno. I see thousands of people going to the Lady Bee and the PnP and Spur where once Victorian Capetownians were buried. I also see homeless people sleep and erect shelters in the remaining bit of cemetery. And in some parts of the world they remove the decomposing bodies and dress them up during certain festivals and feast days. In Shinto for example people pack their deceased relatives' remains in containers themselves. There's still pieces of bone and whatnot there.
Arable land: There is nothing growing, beyond the occasional personal veggy garden over the area of Cape Town I travel every day. I don't think we're running so out of arable land that we need to bring that red herring in. As for travel, again, that's your thing. Some people may not mind traveling but we don't really need that at this stage. Cemeteries, as said, get reused.
In the end it doesn't matter what I value, I cease to live. Best make sure I'm used as efficiently as possible and am not a possible burden to society later on - burn me up Scotty.
It's what you value when you're still alive and what others value - i.e. your loved ones, members of your community etc. I was not thinking at all about dead people. But if you cease when you die, why care that you may or may not be a burden to society, at all?
Again what is a burden? What is society? It's all subjective. In many parts of the world as said, cemeteries are valued and people get value from them, they're not seen as a burden at all. That beyond, bread and circuses, or eating, sleeping and penetrating body cavities.
