Fulcrum29
Honorary Master
Sound a lot like marriage 
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Agreed, I had a life changing opportunity which I flaked out on because of that also the fact that I am a self destructive narcissist didn't do me any favorsDo you mean you can complete a difficult task, but not simple ones? That means you are getting distracted since the simple task is not fully occupying your mind. I think you will have to try and be more determined to complete the simple task. This is similar in a way to stopping smoking or going in a diet. Will power is the old-fashioned way of putting it
Sounds a lot like OCD. Any other signs like doing things repetitively or in a certain order or pattern? By short attention span does that mean getting distracted by other things or literally forgetting of something while doing it?How does one go about getting a diagnostic?
For years I have struggled with Concentration and staying focused. I enthusiastically jump into project after project into project with out finishing anything properly. When I do start something I lose motivation almost as fast as I felt getting motivated in the first place.
I feel that I have lived with too long now and its effecting my personal life and my professional life. I need to talk to somebody who can guide me and assist me with staying focused.
Would depend. Has it always been like this or did it have an onset? In the latter case what happened or changed at around the time it started? On any medication or ever used any except over the counter stuff or used anything long term?Where does go to get tested?
Who can I speak too?
Is there medication that can assist?
There is a difference between ADHD and ADD. Sounds to me like you struggle with ADD. Both my daughter and struggle with ADD and my son with ADHD, so you can imagine there is never a dull moment in my household
Check out Facebook. It has lots of really informative sites that could help you a lot and yes there are meds, but there are also ways to handle/manage it without the drugs.
Believe me, I get bored so easily that's why I don't even bother buying books. Now there is an activity that bores me to death.:erm: