Nope. Completely disagree. Her version went like this and has been backed up by employees and CCTV of spur:
Her kids complained to her they were being bullied by his kid. She asked them to stay at her table. Later the kids went back and his daughter smacked her daughter. Her daughter pwned his daughter and she went running to her father. If he was a reasonable thinking human being like the mother, he would have asked his daughter for the full story. My parents used to listen to the full story of the one to run complaining first, then they would ask you what your part was. They'd pretty much sussed out that kids would be kids. The one who comes running is not necessarily the innocent party.
Her father approached the mother and she told him she didn't react earlier, because kids will be kids. She was magnanimous here since her daughter was the one that got bullied first. She further states that she told him this. This is the point where they both should have laughed about the situation and gone their separate ways.
But because she didn't fall down and do obeisance at his feet, the big cowardly bully that he is turned his rage on her child. He tried to pull her child away and asked his daughter to hit her. She jumped to protect her child like any mother would do and he called her a **** and told her f.you.
The situation then escalated to the point where she was cussing at him and he was threatening her with violence.
In light of everything that has come out, I'm in her corner. I don't think she should have used such language in front of kids, but I will not put the blame for his behaviour at her door. I don't think I would have kept my cool either if some idiot gorilla touched my child and if you're completely honest you will admit it too.
So to recap, no they are both not at fault. There is no justification for his behaviour.