Stealing someone elses GF

[noxibox]

I disagree. She may well do the same if we did get together and I started treating her like the maid and got boring.

The other party doesn't have to do or not do anything. People can and do just invent excuses.

 

[noxibox]

unless...?

He/She jumps off a cliff.

 

[Nick333]

I only have this bit of advice and it should help you answer whatever you want it to do because I've experience it myself.

"If she can do it to someone else, she can do it to you" (And most probably will too)

We seem to be rehashing this over and over in this thread. As abzo has said: that's how it should be.

 

[abandonallhope]

You guys seem to forget your "Don't do to others, what you don't want them to do to you" rule pretty quick.

lol

 

[Nick333]

The other party doesn't have to do or not do anything. People can and do just invent excuses.

Maybe. Logically speaking, some of the time, they will have valid excuses. You have no way of knowing which it is. Your snap judgement indicates bias.

 

[Nick333]

You guys seem to forget your "Don't do to others, what you don't want them to do to you" rule pretty quick.

lol

Again. I'm perfectly willing to die by the sword. I don't expect women to want to be with me without doing my best to make them happy.

 

[GreGorGy]

Nick

Bide your time. Do not become the reason for the split. Let me tell you why: if you see long-term potential with this chick and you drive a rift between her and her current investment just for your own requirements, that's fine. BUT when the day comes (and it will come) where you two disagree on something, she'll start on some "You should have just left me with Xxxx - I was happy." tangent.

It will be a spur of the moment load of crap that could escalate. You do anything "wrong" by her standards, she can always throw that at you. BUT if the current arrangement is destined for failure and you wait your turn, you'll get what you want on far more worthy and honest grounds - the karma alone is worth it.

 

[tRoN]

Here's what you do:

Befriend her boyfriend and make sure to hang out with him a lot while she is around.
While you do this make sure to always look suave. Wear amazing cologne, and make sure that you look better than her boyfriend. This will work on a subconscious level to make her associate you with sexyness.
Always bring gifts to her boyfriend and make sure she sees the gifts; but make sure they are manly gifts, you don't want her to think you are gay. Try stuff like a six pack every now and then, or maybe even a bottle of cologne that you wear. This way, she will associate his smell with yours, and think of you even when you are not around.

Now that you have become friends, they will not be suspicious of you when you are around their house. Here's where the plan comes into action. You need to start sending her threatening mail and emails, maybe even sms's from a new number; don't use yours for obvious reasons. When this has been going on for a while then she will obviously tell her boyfriend about it etc.

Bide your time while still setting up the tone of stalkerishness. You see, you are going to frame her boyfriend for the dodgy messages. You need to plant these things in his house, like the same pens used to write the letters, maybe at the last moment a sim card that you used to send a creepy message.

Then, you set it up for her boyfriend to have an 'accident' *nudge nudge wink wink*.

It's all smooth sailing from there.

You act devastated that he is dead, as of course he is your friend; then you offer to help her clean up his things and conveniently uncover the incriminating 'evidence'.

By that time she will be so sad and confused that her mind will latch on to you as her saviour and protector, and that way you have her for life!

/reported to Crimestop

 

[Nick333]

Nick

Bide your time. Do not become the reason for the split. Let me tell you why: if you see long-term potential with this chick and you drive a rift between her and her current investment just for your own requirements, that's fine. BUT when the day comes (and it will come) where you two disagree on something, she'll start on some "You should have just left me with Xxxx - I was happy." tangent.

It will be a spur of the moment load of crap that could escalate. You do anything "wrong" by her standards, she can always throw that at you. BUT if the current arrangement is destined for failure and you wait your turn, you'll get what you want on far more worthy and honest grounds - the karma alone is worth it.

/nods

 

[Nerfherder]

We seem to be rehashing this over and over in this thread. As abzo has said: that's how it should be.

I think the point is: What is actually happening right now.

Is the BF thinking that he is in a happy relationship with a girl who he thinks loves him ?
Did she always not love him and did she always just see him as a means to an end ?

 

[Nick333]

I think the point is: What is actually happening right now.

Is the BF thinking that he is in a happy relationship with a girl who he thinks loves him ?
Did she always not love him and did she always just see him as a means to an end ?

/shrugs

I'm sure he's aware they're having problems. Doesn't seem that keen to make the effort (not going to go into details here). Don't think she needed him for anything.

 

[Cool E]

You guys seem to forget your "Don't do to others, what you don't want them to do to you" rule pretty quick.

lol

It does not work in this century.

 

[Batista]

Dont do it bru, she is friendly and happy with you while her bf is away? What happens when she is friendly and happy with someone else when you are away? Cmon man..

 

[Cool E]

/shrugs

I'm sure he's aware they're having problems. Doesn't seem that keen to make the effort (not going to go into details here). Don't think she needed him for anything.

Go for it. But don't be in a serious relationship with her.

 

[Cool E]

Dont do it bru, she is friendly and happy with you while her bf is away? What happens when she is friendly and happy with someone else when you are away? Cmon man..

He will leave her and get another gf

 

[Devill]

Hire a girl to seduce him and make sure she catches them together.

Rather hire a guy to seduce him.

 

[OGroteKoning]

If her mom is single, go for her rather

 

[SoulTax]

As long as you hold no illusions that the girl could do the same thing to you if you got into an extended fling with her, then go for it. She obviously wants something from you. I would flirt next time she mentions the BF being a douche, but make it clear with the flirtation that you would show her a good time if she were not with him.

If she ditches him for some fun time with you, then cool. If not, then you have some flirtatious fun with a hot chick, other women hanging around will notice this and you will get poontang from one of them instead.

It is a win win for you really. Unless the boyfriend is a closet psycho.

 

[Cicero]

Nick

Bide your time. Do not become the reason for the split. Let me tell you why: if you see long-term potential with this chick and you drive a rift between her and her current investment just for your own requirements, that's fine. BUT when the day comes (and it will come) where you two disagree on something, she'll start on some "You should have just left me with Xxxx - I was happy." tangent.

It will be a spur of the moment load of crap that could escalate. You do anything "wrong" by her standards, she can always throw that at you. BUT if the current arrangement is destined for failure and you wait your turn, you'll get what you want on far more worthy and honest grounds - the karma alone is worth it.

This is good advice, dont wanna be the guy who really caused the breakup, or who is perceived to be the cause. But there's nothing wrong with telling her you're keen and its a pity she has a bf. Its up to her, klaar.

 

[I.am.Sam]

What's strange in this thread is the absence of pics...

You know the drill

no dont ...she was picked up at a bar