suspicious behaviour or over reacting?

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There is obviously a trust issue between the two of you. Forget about the call (which may very well have been a wrong number), and work on that.
 
Wow.

1. Yes would be my first guess
2. Yes
3. Not sure ?
 
Your wife is well within her rights to react the way she did given how you behaved! If you treat her that way then there's no hope in hell you can tell whether or not she's cheating.
 
R13... said:
Your wife is well within her rights to react the way she did given how you behaved! If you treat her that way then there's no hope in hell you can tell whether or not she's cheating.
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You're right, I guess.

I supposed he needs to clarify him taking the phone ... snatch? ask her? sneakly?
 
Yeeeeaaaahhhhh.....regardless of the whole phonecall....the only thing that can be said from what you wrote, is that there is a much, much deeper issue in your relationship than a mystery phonecall.

You may want to take a step back and look at that first.
 
It depends, has she done anything in the past to make you suspicions?, has she cheated on you before or done anything for you not to trust her?

If not then it was probably just a wrong number….
 
if she was cheating, why would she answer if she recognized the number?

"Oh its my other boyfriend phoning, I better answer in front of my husband."

Huh? Does that make sense to you?

I'm picturing it more like:

"Sh 1 t! Why is he phoning now? Doesnt he know I'm with my husband tonight?"

Also why would the caller hang up if he was the boyfriend? She would be the one to hang up, because remember, the boyfriend, if one exists, is unaware that she is in the car with you. Why would he hang up?
 
Got to agree with the group who say there is a much deeper issue here. Either the suspicions existed before this phone call, or someone is trying to cover up for their own mistakes.
 
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Ok, so lets picture this scenario:

You & your wife are driving & her phone rings. She answers the phone but the caller hangs up. So she ignores it but you are suspicious & take her phone with the intention of searching for that caller's number.

Wife gets annoyed and demands you give her back the phone & you refuse. You fight over the phone, then she gives up & lets you keep her phone.

Then you start calling that unknown caller & the caller tells you its a wrong number... you are not convinced because wife was uncomfortable when the phone rang & it looked like she recognised that number.

So you start interrogating wife about this suspicious caller & she says to you "since you took the liberty to call the person, why dont you ask that person why HE is calling me?".

Then you try to force wife to call the number in your presence (loudspeaker) but she refuses & walks out. She tells you (again) that you are just looking for a fight & you are NOT going to get it.

You proceed to call that number (all night) until you finally give up.

1. Do you think the wife is cheating based on her actions/response during the whole drama?
2. Do you feel justified to go through her call records & call people that you dont even know?
3. What would you (the husband) do in a situation like this?
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You have serious trust issues. Do your wife a favour, get a divorce and let her find someone who's less of a chop.

Put it this way, if she IS cheating on you, I wouldn't blame her for one goddamned second.
 
NBS said:
It depends, has she done anything in the past to make you suspicions?, has she cheated on you before or done anything for you not to trust her?

If not then it was probably just a wrong number….
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The husband is the one who has cheated before.
The wife is always either at work, at home or with husband.
 
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Chief Whip, are you the wife or a friend, or is this a hypothetical scenario? I take it you aren't the husband?
 
Ancalagon said:
if she was cheating, why would she answer if she recognized the number?

"Oh its my other boyfriend phoning, I better answer in front of my husband."

Huh? Does that make sense to you?

I'm picturing it more like:

"Sh 1 t! Why is he phoning now? Doesnt he know I'm with my husband tonight?"

Also why would the caller hang up if he was the boyfriend? She would be the one to hang up, because remember, the boyfriend, if one exists, is unaware that she is in the car with you. Why would he hang up?
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More than that, the other person hung up when she answered. How does that raise any suspicion? Did the other person telepathically know that she was with her husband?
 
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