take it slow vs diving in

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techead

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this question is more to the ladies on the forum ( who are few I know) so guys plz keep your smart comments to yourself! :p unless of course you have something constructuve to say

I just met someone, and we both trying to take things slow... but the tension is building to ridiculous levels now... :whistle:

I kinda decided for myself (before I met her) that I wanted to take the next relationship kinda slow, and not jump into bed ASAP.

She also expressed to me that she is keen on taking things slow, and not rushing.

For the sake of her wishes, would it be better to stick to that and not push the boundries?

My thinking is that it would count in my favour and might even perhaps aid the respect levels she has for me... ultimately giving the relationship a better chance :confused:

worth mentioning, that Im not in this for a quick shag... thinking more long term and serious.

from a womans perspective, your comments plz
 
let her make the decision, dont even kid urself that u will be strong enough to say no if its "too early"
 
Just go for it. If she doesn't want to do something she can say 'no." and then you respect that. Only lesbians like pussies.
 
I see you had no comments from a lady - until now, that is.

Go with your intuition - as set out in your OP.
 
BrendanD said:
To clarify, your status as a woman isn't in doubt. I was jokingly suggesting that some of the male posters might have been less than masculine.

You have a great weekend as well.
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smart move, backing down....reminds me of this....


[video=youtube;s6gbqPsYokk]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6gbqPsYokk[/video]
 
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Been down this road. Remember that you can fall into the trap of taking it too slow, leaving you both unsure of when to make a move (and in the end nothing ever happens). That never ends well, and you can say goodbye to your relationship.

Just be as spontaneous as you can, make a move (not necessarily a sexual one, but progressing from base to base) when you think it feels right. She always has the option of saying no.
 
HTC_guy said:
this question is more to the ladies on the forum ( who are few I know) so guys plz keep your smart comments to yourself! :p unless of course you have something constructuve to say

I just met someone, and we both trying to take things slow... but the tension is building to ridiculous levels now... :whistle:

I kinda decided for myself (before I met her) that I wanted to take the next relationship kinda slow, and not jump into bed ASAP.

She also expressed to me that she is keen on taking things slow, and not rushing.

For the sake of her wishes, would it be better to stick to that and not push the boundries?

My thinking is that it would count in my favour and might even perhaps aid the respect levels she has for me... ultimately giving the relationship a better chance :confused:

worth mentioning, that Im not in this for a quick shag... thinking more long term and serious.

from a womans perspective, your comments plz
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Finally a comment from a lady:

First a few questions before I can comment :p

how long have you known eachother?
how long have you been dating?
 
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