rpm said:
Wally indicated that we want to engage with you specifically on the ADSL billing structure.
It sounds to me like they already have an idea of what they want to talk to you about. Knowing Telkom it'll more likely be a case of them telling you how it is, not leaving any room open for real discussion.
I'd suggest dangling the carrot (of a meeting) in front of them by re-iterrating the whole "We are committed to building a working, mutually beneficialy, relationship" thing. Give them a time and date, but make it conditional on them providing you with a synopsis of what they want to tell you/discuss, promising that you will do the same.
If they are not willing to provide that, then you can back out of the meeting as it would seem obvious (to me) that they are just planning on performing the usual sing and dance.
If they do provide it, it will hopefully be possible to determine whether there is actually anything potentially of value that you could expect to hear from them. If it looks like it is the same old drivel, you can suggest cancelling the meeting as there is nothing new in what you're seeing from them and don't want to waste either parties' time. If it looks like there may be something interesting, it can help you prepare better for the meeting.
The reason I'm not totally in favour of suggesting the agenda yourself is that there is nothing stopping them from basically doing their own thing once you are there. Also, it gives up your hand (what you want to discuss), without seeing theirs (what they seem to already have in mind), making it more difficult for you to prepare.
Parties in a relationship need to listen to each other and hear each other out. It is not one sided.
Yes, indeed there are... but we haven't seen anything like that from Telkom yet. There have been meetings and press interviews in the past, but it has usually been a very one sided "feed".