I have put my ego aside when it comes to gymming and a good thing too because I am finally seeing the results I want and need.
I think it all comes down to bad information and habits on what it takes to grow and feed muscle, my first response to anyone who wants to start body building would be to sort out their diet first, then consult a trainer to find out the correct way of doing things.
I have noticed since I dropped the attitude of adding too much weight and thinking I'm completing a set in good form, all that got me was a nice pump and little else.
Since I started the "burning sessions" as I like to call them now, its' scary the difference that the last month has made, I'm sore today and almost everyday, the good sore, the sore you know you have torn the fibers to grow.
Still getting the diet right, it's tricky but can be done.
I look at everything I eat as How can that repair me
I only use free weights and body weight now adopted a lower weight, make each rep longer, make each rep count, you got the weight up remember it needs to go down slowly, if you don't feel the burn you are not doing it right, stay below 10 to 12 reps.
A magazine that's getting me to my goals is Men's Fitness, very good articles.