Crusader,
I usually find my EQ mount in the spareroom if it is cloudy or windy outside, otherwise I use my red headlight to find it in the dark ;-)
I love my LXD75 mount. It has a built-in polar scope, and even here in Durbanville I can see sigma Octans through it, well actually four of the "brighter" Octans stars. The polar scope has a little picture of the 4 stars which you use to align it up with. I find it just too hard on the neck so never use it. I use my handcontroller to do a rough polar alignment, use 3 star alignment and it calculates how far you are off from SCP. For AP I drift align, usually takes me about 30min. I also have marked spots in the backyard whee the tripod feet goes, but I am in the process of seting up a portable pier, but it would be left in place permantly. I am not allowed to dig up the congrete for a permanent pier :-(
I started out AP with a barndoor tracker that I motorised with a stepper motor from an old floppy drive, for shorter focal length shots I could go to 60sec exposures without trailing.
Clear skies!
Charles