The PERFECT first date...

iDenTiTy said:
What would you classify as a good option?

Bird Gardens,
Coffee,
Movie,
Some extreme sports thing (rafting, abseiling etc.).


Oh yeah, only those who had successful ones need apply...

:)


/awaits avalanche of taunts... */

:o
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Option 4 please!!!:p
 
Ok. A bit of a development...

I have been invited to a barn dance at the local tennis club, would this be a nice thing for a first date? (Bearing in mind, I think that my parent MAY be there, somehow...)

I know the idea of parents on a first date is bad, (experience) - but I quite like the idea of a barn dance with a nice lady....

:)
 
depends on how comfortable you are with each other. it could work pretty well if you can dance and you've spoken a few times with some good convos. ask yourself if you feel comfortable enough with her to be willing to spend an entire night with her... but i'd only go if the parents arent going. check with them.

english girls generally dont know how to sokkie (especially the spins) so if there's sokkie-ing and you know how to, then you're sorted. teach her a few spins. not only does it show her that you're a good dancer but it also lets her become used to your touch and being close to her, which will make making your next move a lot easier.
 
A BARN DANCE!!!!!????

Have you perfected time travel? What fscking era are you posting from?
 
I'm also confused - how can you feel like that one day, and have absolutely no memory of it two days later?
 
hxc87x said:
that lawyer girl?

depends on how well you know each other... if you've only seen each other once but have spoken a bit over the phone/sms/email then i'd go for bird gardens/coffee (or both)

the important thing in a first date is that you dont want her to feel trapped, she should be able to abort whenever she feels like it, this sets her nerves at ease and when she's relaxed she'll be a lot easier to attract. a relaxed smile and a fun, energetic and positive attitude and some kino and you'll have your second date. look for indicators of interest (her leaning in, keeping good eye contact, laughing, touching your arm, winking, teasing you back, punching your arm when you tease her, saying "thats mean" and then laughing etc)

a nice game i like to play during coffee is to get a table where you can see the whole coffee shop, have her sitting next to you (at 90 degrees at least, she should have a good view too...) and then talk about the other people in the shop ("he looks like an accountant, she's a broker, he juggles on the side of the highway while wearing rugby shorts and a parka") its fun and interesting. if you think she's into you but you're not sure, take her hand and squeeze it softly. if she squeezes back then its going pretty damn well, player ;-)

if you've seen each other 2-3 times and have had good convo and some kino then movies are good because she would feel comfortable enough to sit for 2 hours with you. romantic comedies are lame. stay away.

an emotionally charged date (like something extreme) is good for a second or third date after you've built that tiny bit of initial attraction. i like go-carting... challenge her to a race, loser buys coffee. or you can take her to gold reef and ride some coasters. abseiling and rafting might be a bit extreme until you've had 3-4 really good dates, and even then she might not be into something that extreme.
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+1 ! :D you've help me aswell mate...thnks for the advice...;)
 
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