Trying anal for first time

Hedo Rick style

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jansdejager said:
it's not any different from vaginal, just hurts like hell (apparently)
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It is very different...there's a whole different psychological thing going on that's way different from using the designated entrance. There's a trust thing, a control thing, a vulnerability thing going on...it's can be extraordinary the first time with someone new.

It can also be ****...take the lube \ extensive warm-up \ pace advice seriously.
 
So many 'straight' guys in the closet on this forum
 
Neoprod said:
It is very different...there's a whole different psychological thing going on that's way different from using the designated entrance. There's a trust thing, a control thing, a vulnerability thing going on...it's can be extraordinary the first time with someone new.

It can also be ****...take the lube \ extensive warm-up \ pace advice seriously.
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you are right


[video]https://youtu.be/eCD_95mEvIA?t=1m27s[/video]
 
This might be a IT site, but it does not seem many of you are well versed in sex. . . .

First off. . . As previously said "use a enema"
you can buy a home enema kit at your local clinic. . . .there are various types, but you don't need anything fancy. . . .do not get the disposable one, and if it comes with any type of solution, discard that and just use water. . .at room temperature. . . .
You need to do that twice. . . .then wait for about a hour and a half incase there is still anything remaining. . . .

Then I would advise you to get 2 or 3 anal plugs varing in size. . . .start with the smallest obviously. . .leave it in until she feels the need to releave herself again. . .then move onto the other. . . .doing this over a period of time in order for her to become accustomed to the sensation. . . .

Also remember to buy lube that is specifically made for anal sex. . . .
and to help ease the process you can get her to pleasure herself during the whole process. . . .or of course you can. . .

Otherwise just google more information. . . .This is just the basics and there is far more that you can do in order to make the experience enjoyable for the both you of. . . .

Last but not least, look up some safety hints. . . .

Also if she is suffering from any stomach conditions then do not use a enema. . . .
Also using a enema also has various health benifits attached to it as well, so you can look up further on that.
 
Jay21stm said:
This might be a IT site, but it does not seem many of you are well versed in sex. . . .
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Many of us are. But OP hasn't responded again so this may be one of those hit and run stirring threads. If not there's some other advice/things as well depending on whether he/she is the adventurous type that will have him/her in the clouds.
 
It can hurt sometimes if the person giving is very rough.... To counter that let she take control and do the work. That can be very very pleasurable.
 
Jay21stm said:
First off. . . As previously said "use a enema"
you can buy a home enema kit at your local clinic. . . .there are various types, but you don't need anything fancy. . . .do not get the disposable one, and if it comes with any type of solution, discard that and just use water. . .at room temperature. . . .
You need to do that twice. . . .then wait for about a hour and a half incase there is still anything remaining. . . .
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Uhm you don't have to go to that extreme. Just have to make sure your bowels are empty and you haven't eaten a heavy meal beforehand.
 
LOL! This thread.

It doesn't hurt of you do it right.
Use lube
Use fingers first so that the anus relaxes.
Go in slow until she/you feel comfortable.

The anus is sensitive and tight, but it relaxes quickly. Once you're in all the way, it's smooth sailing.

Make sure you use lube...I cannot stress this more.
 
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