adinfinitum
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It's overrated in any case.
As a girl agreed. Doesn't do anything for me at all. G-spot other side dammit.
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It's overrated in any case.
Also, note this can go south, like South Pole south. So be prepared for all the things you don't see in porn.
Use Anal Eaze
It's overrated in any case.
As a girl agreed. Doesn't do anything for me at all. G-spot other side dammit.![]()
I have to disagree. Hiding behind this nick for obvious reasons
As a girl, I love anal. I come much faster then just with normal sex. I get what all the hype is about.
Using Anal Eaze can be dangerous, as it contains a local anaesthetic, which numbs the area it is used on.
Pain can be an indicator that you are doing something wrong.
Get your girlfriend to clean herself out if she is scared she is going to be "dirty" although for many people that isn't an issue.
Use a good quality lube, that won't dry out and become sticky.
If you have buttplugs, use those to stretch her, starting with the smallest, and progressively moving to the largest.
Alternatively use your well lubed fingers, starting with one. Gently slip it in, and start wiggling it about.
As she loosens, add another finger, until she can comfortably accept at least 3 fingers.
Once she is comfortable with 3 fingers, you can move on to the real thing.
She should be reasonably well lubed at this stage.
Apply lube to yourself, and SLOWLY start insertion. Listen to her, and stop immediately when she experiences any pain.
Wait until she is comfortable with the depth before you slip more in.
Once you are all the way in, give her some time to get used to the feeling. If she is comfortable with it, you can start slowly moving, and take your cues from her as to the speed, depth and any movements you make.
The first time may not be as pleasurable as you would expect, and if you ruin it on the first try, you could put her off anal sex permanently.
Once she accepts that it is fun, and is used to it, it can be a great addition to your playtime.
Keep a wet washcloth handy to discreetly clean up once you are done.
Nobody has time for this.This is a whole ritual! Am i the only one that thinks so?
Oh and wear a condom. It is the rear door. Not as pleasant as the front one.
My girlfriend has mentioned she wants to attempt the anal this Friday.
Anything I should know, do , practice? Told her I had done this but haven't. (Alpha-tendencies).
Not trolling. Dummy nick.
As with anything. . . .doing it for the first time actually requires a little patients. . . .
but once it's done and she is now use to it. . .
I have to disagree. Hiding behind this nick for obvious reasons
As a girl, I love anal. I come much faster then just with normal sex. I get what all the hype is about.
I have to disagree. Hiding behind this nick for obvious reasons
As a girl, I love anal. I come much faster then just with normal sex. I get what all the hype is about.
Nobody has time for this.This is a whole ritual! Am i the only one that thinks so?