Trying anal for first time

Drifter said:
Use Anal Eaze
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Using Anal Eaze can be dangerous, as it contains a local anaesthetic, which numbs the area it is used on.
Pain can be an indicator that you are doing something wrong.

Get your girlfriend to clean herself out if she is scared she is going to be "dirty" although for many people that isn't an issue.
Use a good quality lube, that won't dry out and become sticky.
If you have buttplugs, use those to stretch her, starting with the smallest, and progressively moving to the largest.
Alternatively use your well lubed fingers, starting with one. Gently slip it in, and start wiggling it about.
As she loosens, add another finger, until she can comfortably accept at least 3 fingers.
Once she is comfortable with 3 fingers, you can move on to the real thing.
She should be reasonably well lubed at this stage.
Apply lube to yourself, and SLOWLY start insertion. Listen to her, and stop immediately when she experiences any pain.
Wait until she is comfortable with the depth before you slip more in.
Once you are all the way in, give her some time to get used to the feeling. If she is comfortable with it, you can start slowly moving, and take your cues from her as to the speed, depth and any movements you make.

The first time may not be as pleasurable as you would expect, and if you ruin it on the first try, you could put her off anal sex permanently.
Once she accepts that it is fun, and is used to it, it can be a great addition to your playtime.

Keep a wet washcloth handy to discreetly clean up once you are done.
 
pezulu said:
Using Anal Eaze can be dangerous, as it contains a local anaesthetic, which numbs the area it is used on.
Pain can be an indicator that you are doing something wrong.

Get your girlfriend to clean herself out if she is scared she is going to be "dirty" although for many people that isn't an issue.
Use a good quality lube, that won't dry out and become sticky.
If you have buttplugs, use those to stretch her, starting with the smallest, and progressively moving to the largest.
Alternatively use your well lubed fingers, starting with one. Gently slip it in, and start wiggling it about.
As she loosens, add another finger, until she can comfortably accept at least 3 fingers.
Once she is comfortable with 3 fingers, you can move on to the real thing.
She should be reasonably well lubed at this stage.
Apply lube to yourself, and SLOWLY start insertion. Listen to her, and stop immediately when she experiences any pain.
Wait until she is comfortable with the depth before you slip more in.
Once you are all the way in, give her some time to get used to the feeling. If she is comfortable with it, you can start slowly moving, and take your cues from her as to the speed, depth and any movements you make.

The first time may not be as pleasurable as you would expect, and if you ruin it on the first try, you could put her off anal sex permanently.
Once she accepts that it is fun, and is used to it, it can be a great addition to your playtime.

Keep a wet washcloth handy to discreetly clean up once you are done.
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/takes notes
 
Jay21stm said:
This might be a IT site, but it does not seem many of you are well versed in sex. . . .

First off. . . As previously said "use a enema"
you can buy a home enema kit at your local clinic. . . .there are various types, but you don't need anything fancy. . . .do not get the disposable one, and if it comes with any type of solution, discard that and just use water. . .at room temperature. . . .
You need to do that twice. . . .then wait for about a hour and a half incase there is still anything remaining. . . .

Then I would advise you to get 2 or 3 anal plugs varing in size. . . .start with the smallest obviously. . .leave it in until she feels the need to releave herself again. . .then move onto the other. . . .doing this over a period of time in order for her to become accustomed to the sensation. . . .

Also remember to buy lube that is specifically made for anal sex. . . .
and to help ease the process you can get her to pleasure herself during the whole process. . . .or of course you can. . .

Otherwise just google more information. . . .This is just the basics and there is far more that you can do in order to make the experience enjoyable for the both you of. . . .

Last but not least, look up some safety hints. . . .

Also if she is suffering from any stomach conditions then do not use a enema. . . .
Also using a enema also has various health benifits attached to it as well, so you can look up further on that.
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Yip. Good advice ... but what method also said. Fingers can be a good tool to use. I would prefer fingers....more intimate.

Poppers can also make anal sex a lot easier and more pleasurable. Dont use it if you have a underlying heart condition. Try to not use too much. It can sometimes (not always) cause a bitch of a headache afterwards.

Rimming is also a option to help her or you relax. Good nice cleaning shower is required for this of course.
 
Ockie said:
Yip. Good advice ... but what method also said. Fingers can be a good tool to use. I would prefer fingers....more intimate.

Poppers can also make anal sex a lot easier and more pleasurable. Dont use it if you have a underlying heart condition. Try to not use too much. It can sometimes (not always) cause a bitch of a headache afterwards.

Rimming is also a option to help her or you relax. Good nice cleaning shower is required for this of course.
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lol I read POOPERS...was like "What? That's the whole topic then?!" :D
 
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