love56k
Expert Member
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No, she is not lucky, she was attacked at gunpoint. There is no "Well luckily she is still alive/not raped etc" She is now mentally scarred for life. Some people WISH they were dead after one of those experiences.
Ths "Luckily........[fill in the blanks]" is a self justification for apathy. Adding to the scenario with an even more Grim picture just dilutes the fact she was attacked in HER OWN HOUSE... She is fortunate to be ok, but she is no-where near lucky.
Its not tolerable. Why should people live in secure complexes with Rotewilers / guns / security guards.. and STILL get attacked.
Its not acceptable at all!
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Yes it could have been worse. But once the term "she or he is lucky" is used, people just move on and forget the seriousness of the ordeal. She was not lucky, she was attacked and tied up in her home.
The other favorite term these days which gets thrown around so much, "its her fault, she did not activate here alarm, or she should have done this or that or had that...."
Its becoming a self justification that someone else is OK after a heartless Bast@rd has just invaded their personal space, and everything is OK.
After that, no-one thinks about the persons mental anguish and suffering. Being alive is all that counts? Would you want to sleep every night and replay the attack in your dreams ? Night after night? the same attack?
As I said, she is fortunate to be alive, but luck has nothing to do with it..... She would not have been attacked in the first place if it was for 'Luck'. What did their neighbors say? "Luckily it wasnt us!"
i couldn't agree more... well said Ricard and MacNabs!
if only everyone in this country would wake up to these facts and stop (inadvertently) making victims feel "lucky".