unwanted attention...

[Cruelty]

Still don't see why she needs to confront him at all. After all her boss is the one who allows it.

I see your point, but we are people before we are employees. IMO, scarlett should tell this guy that she is not interested in him and would prefer it if he backed off and left her alone. If he continues, then raise it with the boss.

 

[Venomous]

really? i wish i was a girl, i'd feel better turning him down everyday and every shot he tried rather than thinking that he annoyed me. to think you give this guy psychological nightmares should be amusing

he is acting malicious on purpose. he is blocking you in, he is saying things behind your back, he is making an effort to visit you, so i would have hurting his feeligns would have been the better thing by turning him down constantly. he obviously see's you as a challenge and has the go-getter attitude, so you can break him, into little pieces

also, i think you should talk to your bf about it. you should be able to, and tell your bf that the only reason you're telling him is because you want to be honest and not let this get complicated, or your bf might interpret this as being a problem and that is why you've kept quiet. i don't think you should keep stuff from him, but i can't really comment on your relationship, i just think that's the healthier way. i'm sure your boyfriend has restraint, and it would be important to explain to him the relationship with the boss and why he HAS to show restraint

I woulda walked all over him.

Yeah attention like that can be flattering at first but can become highly annoying.

 

[AstroTurf]

i wish i could just be like that, and just say something arb like im pregnant. but in the moment i take it seriously, too seriously, another girl would be like, im blushing out of emabarrasment for you.
or just be a total bitch, and then he'd run away and cry. but im not like that and this is why im battling with this situation.

Borrow your mom's engagement ring and wear it to work.

 

[scarlett]

i chatted to the PA a bit today again,
and she said that i need to be a bitch to him,
and that if I do speak to anyone about it - it must be our boss,
because if i talk to him apparently he might go to my boss with another story because she says he is a compulsive liar and can talk his way out of anything.

He is getting more days off work now for some reason aswell and im just like I will stab this guy with my pen if I have to see him anymore than I already do.

I think im going to see how the next week or two plays out,
and like many of you suggested, be a bitch and talk about my boyfriend.

So im going to try do that. I just hope he doesnt think now that me being a bitch is playing hard to get or something.

But anyway it sounds good so going to give it a try..

 

[Venomous]

scarlett,

he will see you as hard to get he just has to realise you're a ''never gonna get'' as far as he's concerned....

 

[ponder]

I think im going to see how the next week or two plays out,
and like many of you suggested, be a bitch and talk about my boyfriend.

So im going to try do that. I just hope he doesnt think now that me being a bitch is playing hard to get or something.

Just ignore him until your boss gets back and go speak to her about him.

This oke actually needs a klap but right now that is not going to help you either

 

[kingrob]

i chatted to the PA a bit today again,
and she said that i need to be a bitch to him,
and that if I do speak to anyone about it - it must be our boss,
because if i talk to him apparently he might go to my boss with another story because she says he is a compulsive liar and can talk his way out of anything.

He is getting more days off work now for some reason aswell and im just like I will stab this guy with my pen if I have to see him anymore than I already do.

I think im going to see how the next week or two plays out,
and like many of you suggested, be a bitch and talk about my boyfriend.

So im going to try do that. I just hope he doesnt think now that me being a bitch is playing hard to get or something.

But anyway it sounds good so going to give it a try..

Never stop talking about what you and your boyfriend did....make it your first sentence everytime you have to talk to him.

Im sure it will really cheeze him off. Sort him out & dont be a sissy!

 

[scarlett]

ok.. i think ive had enough.
He walked in today and I ignored him, he then hovered in the backround for about 4minutes. felt like forever, and then said, are you not saying hello to me now?
So i said Hi.

then, it was time for me to go. and he said that i must tell him when im leaving because he must move his car.

So i just made my way to the door,. walked to the gate and he appeared soon thereafter,
he tried to make small talk with me and I just kept it minimal conversation and got in my car and left.

i told my sister and brother now about this, and they **** themselves.
they said i must talk to my boss tomorrow, so.. im going to.

Dont know what to say though. Im very nervous because it is basically family.

 

[Maddmatt]

then, it was time for me to go. and he said that i must tell him when im leaving because he must move his car.

Did you even ask him why he parks his car in your way? Come on, you need to be more assertive!