Update on my work situation

Question - how old are you? And no offense meant - just trying to gauge the situation in the fullest context
 
Oh dear.... OP is now completely like the battered wife in an abusive situation. Getting KAK pay and now in denial about the abuse too?
Guess the interview didn't pan out either
 
newjourno said:
When my office manager called her to have a chat with her about not obeying their authority, I actually over-heard this girl 'bad-mouthing me' and trying to put the blame on me.It was something I was not supposed to hear so I acted as though I did not.
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This is the kind of thing that might be the cause of your anxiety. If this happens again you walk in and you ask her to her face what the problem is. That's the kind of person that must be put in their place. I used to have a colleague like that. I was taken aback at first and let it slide for a few months, until I got physically sick because of it. At that point I became his worst enemy. Before he left he admitted to getting nightmares about me at night. Long story behind that, not for a forum.

But I think you get what I'm saying, you don't walk away and say nothing, you storm in and you confront the person (in a respectful manner of course).
 
newjourno said:
Haha, I really do not know what is up there. I have not heard back from them but they legit took like 6 months after getting my CV to contact me. Many big media companies are undergoing a major transition so they can be a bit disorganized. It is either I failed or they will contact me down the line.
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Well here's the thing see... its called follow-up.
 
eg2505 said:
guy has anxiety issues, totally understandable,

think he did try blogging at one point,
not sure how that worked out for him.
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He has been given so many other options and alternatives and possible avenues to try. This whole spiel is becoming tiresome now. Like, we get it, you have problems and you can't deal with it. Make a change or man up. Two choices really. Well, three if you add in the option of drugs to escape reality.
 
GhostSixFour said:
He has been given so many other options and alternatives and possible avenues to try. This whole spiel is becoming tiresome now. Like, we get it, you have problems and you can't deal with it. Make a change or man up. Two choices really. Well, three if you add in the option of drugs to escape reality.
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lol at drugs...
everybody faces difficulties at some point in life, its rare that nothing happens and all goes well,
this guy is quite young, starting out, massive student debt (Im sure).
and just trying to find his feet.

we all been there, he just looking for some support, what harm is there in that?
maybe not moaning I agree, and maybe not trying anything suggested, I agree,
but support otherwise? always possible.
 
newjourno said:
They were in the room next to me. I try not to hear. I think the reason why I ended up hearing was because they were in an emotional state and people tend to be louder.
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Let it sort itself out. If what you say about this person's reputation is true, no-one else at work is going to believe anything she says. As a boss, if you're yelling at one person and they bring up other people, it's generally irritating.

Also post pics of your co-worker.
 
I mean this in a nice way: Take 2 teaspoons of cement and harden the f@k up. Its a dog eat dog world. Play hard but play fair. Do not fabricate but use stuff to your advantage. Be nice but ruthless.
 
Maybe she's sexually frustrated. No really, it happens. Maybe this chick just needs a good shag.
 
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