Urgent. Peadophile?

ok i got bored after the first page...until ur one of the ppl in that situation none of u can judge!!! i was 15 when i met gdiza and he was 21 we had no problems and are still good friends. none of us can judge this situation bcoz we dont know either the daughter or the guy. i think u should meet him and assess the situation urself. dont make wise a$$ comments about k@k u dont understand. i'll tell u from experience, my parents never approved and tried to keep me away and i went on seeing gdiza, i still do 4 yrs later and my parents could never stop me. now my parents say its fine but we'd rather know about it than go behind our backs. my dad even agreed for me to date him...that just shows u need to be understanding and accepting or ur daughter will shy away from u forever. i hate my father and i still dont talk to him much. dont make ur daughter hate u
 
Risa said:
ok i got bored after the first page...until ur one of the ppl in that situation none of u can judge!!! i was 15 when i met gdiza and he was 21 we had no problems and are still good friends. none of us can judge this situation bcoz we dont know either the daughter or the guy. i think u should meet him and assess the situation urself. dont make wise a$$ comments about k@k u dont understand. i'll tell u from experience, my parents never approved and tried to keep me away and i went on seeing gdiza, i still do 4 yrs later and my parents could never stop me. now my parents say its fine but we'd rather know about it than go behind our backs. my dad even agreed for me to date him...that just shows u need to be understanding and accepting or ur daughter will shy away from u forever. i hate my father and i still dont talk to him much. dont make ur daughter hate u
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;)
 
Risa said:
ok i got bored after the first page...until ur one of the ppl in that situation none of u can judge!!! i was 15 when i met gdiza and he was 21 we had no problems and are still good friends. none of us can judge this situation bcoz we dont know either the daughter or the guy. i think u should meet him and assess the situation urself. dont make wise a$$ comments about k@k u dont understand. i'll tell u from experience, my parents never approved and tried to keep me away and i went on seeing gdiza, i still do 4 yrs later and my parents could never stop me. now my parents say its fine but we'd rather know about it than go behind our backs. my dad even agreed for me to date him...that just shows u need to be understanding and accepting or ur daughter will shy away from u forever. i hate my father and i still dont talk to him much. dont make ur daughter hate u
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well stated Risa.
 
Risa said:
ok i got bored after the first page...until ur one of the ppl in that situation none of u can judge!!! i was 15 when i met gdiza and he was 21 we had no problems and are still good friends. none of us can judge this situation bcoz we dont know either the daughter or the guy. i think u should meet him and assess the situation urself. dont make wise a$$ comments about k@k u dont understand. i'll tell u from experience, my parents never approved and tried to keep me away and i went on seeing gdiza, i still do 4 yrs later and my parents could never stop me. now my parents say its fine but we'd rather know about it than go behind our backs. my dad even agreed for me to date him...that just shows u need to be understanding and accepting or ur daughter will shy away from u forever. i hate my father and i still dont talk to him much. dont make ur daughter hate u
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Could you explain this a little better? Are you saying you hate your dad because he agreed to let you date him?

As for this whole underage thing, my parents are divorced and at 16 although I THOUGHT I was all grown up, and mature (like most of you are saying 16 yr olds are) I was far from it! My mom also gave consent saying she would rather know, than me doing it behind my back, which at the time I thought was awesome!

After having sex with some older guy 19, he dumped me like a hot potato and moved onto the next girl in my standard.. To this day I still regret what I did.. I wish I had waited and I wish my mom had warned me about the emotional side of sex for woman... At 16 you do not realise the emotional side but it does catch up with you..

Probably different for men..
 
SlinkyMike said:
I think you will be shocked to learn how grown up your 16 year old actually is.
Do yourself a favour and get to know her before she gives up on you ever getting off of your parent pedestal.
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I agree and disagree. I don't think 16yo are already sexually ready but emotionaly they can be. That said I've met 23yo boys who are ... just that, still boys. So in that case, who are we to judge. That 23yo boy could be perfect for that 16yo girl.
 
I don't think 16yo are already sexually ready but emotionaly they can be
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You mean the other way around?

20 something guys dating girls in high school is rather common and has been so since the '90's already. I don't understand what the fuss is all about. I've dated girls very much younger than me, and it didn't work because their immaturity got on my nerves.
 
Natasha H said:
Could you explain this a little better? Are you saying you hate your dad because he agreed to let you date him?

As for this whole underage thing, my parents are divorced and at 16 although I THOUGHT I was all grown up, and mature (like most of you are saying 16 yr olds are) I was far from it! My mom also gave consent saying she would rather know, than me doing it behind my back, which at the time I thought was awesome!

After having sex with some older guy 19, he dumped me like a hot potato and moved onto the next girl in my standard.. To this day I still regret what I did.. I wish I had waited and I wish my mom had warned me about the emotional side of sex for woman... At 16 you do not realise the emotional side but it does catch up with you..

Probably different for men..
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no i mean i hated him for what he did to begin with. it took him 4 years to agree and he did it in a big huff puff and pouty face!
 
Nanfeishen said:
I think the OP should

a) place a little bit more trust in his/her daughter to make her own decisions
b) cut the apron strings
c) realise that she is no longer a child but a young woman
d) give the situation the benefit of the doubt and stop assuming things
e) respect his/her daughters right to choose who she see, simply put respect
her freedom of choice
f) respect her right to privacy by not sharing her relationship with all and sundry
g) Realise that most of the answers are outdated values and prudish responces.

If the OP has been a good parent, done their job well, then they should trust their child.
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+1
 
Put a meat tenderiser at the front door, d!ck height, if he wants to date her and really wants to date her he can have 5 shots with the meat tenderiser and take her out for the night.
 
My husband says at 13 a sign will go up at our front gate: "Boyfriends will be shot, survivors will be shot again" :)
 
When I was 23...met a 16 year old through friends...was at church them. She was damn nice. Had no idea she was 16, she looked about 20/21. Anyways...went out a few times etc, found out she was 16. Saw her again and ended it. She liked me a lot, but I felt I couldnt do something like that...just didnt feel right.

Just cos some women mature faster, doesnt always mean they knwo what they doing. So ja...I didnt feel right about...I ended it even though her parents and I got on great and they didnt mind the relationship (not that it really got there in short amount of time).
 
CrazyFig said:
When I was 23...met a 16 year old through friends...was at church them. She was damn nice. Had no idea she was 16, she looked about 20/21. Anyways...went out a few times etc, found out she was 16. Saw her again and ended it. She liked me a lot, but I felt I couldnt do something like that...just didnt feel right.

Just cos some women mature faster, doesnt always mean they knwo what they doing. So ja...I didnt feel right about...I ended it even though her parents and I got on great and they didnt mind the relationship (not that it really got there in short amount of time).
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You sound like you don't have any regrets :)

Only kiddin.... :)
 
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